My bfr. is 19 yrs. older than me. Living with him I am paying almost half for everything, going out I pay my half always and in general paying always for myself, he never treats me or giving presents. He also has three children from his previous marriage. He always talks about the future but never offers nothing definite. I've been with him for 1.5 yr.
The thing is I am alone in the new city, don't know anybody and go to school that I have to attend for another 1.5 yr, so I need to live with somebody otherwise I wouldn't be able to stay here since it's super expensive.
Anyway, should I wait untill graduation and waist my time on him or should I move back and postpone my school???
2006-10-31 02:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gawd - this relationship sounds awful. I'm sure you can do much better. Why saddle yourself to a guy like this. Do you love him? He doesn't seem to give you much reason to. I'd hit the bricks.
2006-10-31 02:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should go on jerry springer show considering your situation...he he...just jokin...
first of all, whatever free time you've got use that to find another place to stay. Since he is ONLY 19 and already has 3 kids (how is that ever possible?), he will need to save as much money as he can to provide for his kids, so i wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't spend money on you.
You have to consider that he might be using you... i mena the guy has 3 kids already and he is only 19, what is he planning with you?
You shoudl seriously consider leaving him...
2006-10-31 10:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Zed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont sound like you love him so move on. perhaps you can run and ad in the paper and find a nice roommate. staying for the wrong reason is not fair to anyone not you him or his children.
2006-10-31 10:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a roommate. You obviously don't care for him. Don't keep stringing him along and don't "waste" his time.
2006-10-31 10:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by meggs4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move back, dont waste you life! you dont get it back incase you didnt know..postpone school, its only temporary aint it!!
i would def move back hon xXx
2006-10-31 10:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋