Would you consider a relationship with an attractive, divorced 35 year old woman with two young children....or would you consider the children as simply too much baggage?
(Divorce - no big drama, just drifted apart)
2006-10-31 02:12:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No problem, and I would understand that the kids will always come before me. Several guys don't appreciate this, especially those without children already.
Any relationship takes 2 way effort, but on initial meeting, if I like a person then what does it matter if she's already got children?.
Some guys see it as added responsiblity, but to be honest, a majority of decent guys would accept it.
2006-10-31 06:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Slackbladder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Children should never be seen as baggage, there a part of you so if someone starts a relationship with you they must understand that they have to start a relationship with the kids as well, i think alot of men would be very interested in haveing a relationship with you and your family, look at it another way, would you have a relationship with a single dad with 2 kids ?????
2006-10-31 10:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by simonbeever2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 35yr old man,currently single.I have no kids of my own,but was married briefly a few years ago,and my ex had a daughter.I like kids,but the little one's father wasn't around,and so she was mostly used to her and her mum.I had to work hard to gain her trust,and convince her that i wasn't going to be taking over as her mum's no 1 priority.We eventually had a very good relationship,and when we split,her mother moved away a few months later,and i missed the little girl very much.I've had a few relationships since,and most of them had kids,and that never bothered me.I guess what i'm saying is if you care enough for someone,it shouldn't matter if they have kids or not.
2006-10-31 10:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by duracell18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-10-31 10:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if she was attractive and fairly intelligent (and the kids werent complete brats).When you reach your 30s you have to accept the fact that people will come with kids already unless they are cat loving hippies.
2006-10-31 10:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by Alfred E. Newman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do all the time, there are no single women in their mid to late 30s without children !
If there are ,I cant seem to find them lol. x
2006-10-31 12:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by iain xx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider it... But not everyone is the same...
I think it depends upon the maturity of the man and the history of his previous relationships... [Whether or not he has his own kids is usually a clincher.]
2006-10-31 10:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My choice would be if I was in love with the mother it doesn't matter, the children come as one, don't let anyone take advantage
2006-10-31 10:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, divorce is not a crime.
2006-10-31 10:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-31 10:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋