What would you do if you were at a party and you were with ur 3 best friends and the guy you are in love with and ur friends bfs...
And one of ur best friends are really really drunk and kissin on everybody! while her bf was passed out drunk....
and then it happens she kisses the guy you love....
but then he gives her to his friend, comes over to you and tells you what happened bc he thought you didnt see and tells you that he loves you...and the next day
ur friend dont say nothing about it so you dont think she remembers?
should i ask her if she remembers? or just drop it untill it happens again? i need some really honest advice... pls help
2006-10-31 02:10:52 · 22 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy i love is my boyfriend...
2006-10-31 02:17:09 · update #1
because of this he is quiting drinking bc i broke up with him bc of that and some other stuff he did while he was drunk but we got back together
2006-10-31 02:23:39 · update #2
a real friend is someone who will tell you straight away when you have done something wrong, not to judge you but to teach you so that it doesn't happen again. yes, if you are a real friend, i think you should talk to her and tell her about what happened. this way, the next time you go to a party, she will be able to control herself and avoid getting drunk. she is just lucky because when this happened, she was with friends like you. What if this happens again when you are not around and someone will take advantage of her? telling her would also give her a chance to apologize to those people she bothered. I also take my hat off to your boyfriend becuz she never took advantage of your friend and has shown you that he really loves you because he didn't want you to think ill of him.
2006-10-31 02:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice for your friend :if she drinks and doesn't remember what she did the next morning she shouldn't be drinking she sucks .I have been drunk off my *** before and i can still remember what the hell i did the next morning .beer only slows your way of thinking and it makes you clumsy .it doesn't hypnotize people and make them in to sluts for all the girls who get drunk and don't know there limit and wake up in the morning with some weird guy well guess what the beer didn't make them act like a slut they are a slut ,being a woman you should have a limit beer makes a person act out what they feel not turn in to a different person so if your mad your gonna start a fight and if you want to get your freak on your gonna get your freak on you understand ? so if you don't want this to happen again then let your man know next time he allows a drunk girl any where near his face that theres gonna be problems .there is no way in hell I'm gonna let some drunk person near my face its just stuff you have to be ready for your around drunken people hello any thing can happen so always be ready for the crazy ones like your friend that dose stuff and supposedly doesn't remember in the morning ...................good luck and watch that friend ......................
2006-10-31 02:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well first of all I would ask her because if she really didn't mean to she would say I was drunk I am sorry but if she wasn't and she did it on perpous she would probably say I didn't kiss him unless she doesn't really remember. and for your boyfriend if he really loves you he would tell you the honest to god truth no matter what so you do what you think is write. I hope I helped. Good Luck o yea and HAPPY HALLOWEEN!
2006-10-31 02:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Blue_eyes_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop it. Ur guy was up front with you, so heres no prob there. Ur gf probably doesn't remember. So, short of finding a new grp of frnds, let it go. U might advise gf not to drink so much, but that will be useless.
2006-10-31 02:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by glw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does not remember.. Don't say anything to her but don't let it happen again. If it does make sure to tell her boyfriend. It looks like you have an honest guy with you.. Keep him. They are hard to find.
2006-10-31 02:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, was she really, really drunk to have kissed your guy or she seized such a perfect opportunity to kiss your guy. Any which way, just forget and pretend it never happened and warn your guy not to do it again.
If it happens again, then there's something going on. (Watch her closely if she eyes your guy but if not, then it was a mistake).
2006-10-31 02:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off all why are you worried about? when people are drunk they don't know what they are doing.. plus if she was kissin everybody then are you going to tell her to try to embrassed her or get her angry.. if i were you i would just leave it because the guy already told you taht he loves you..
2006-10-31 02:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that u should ask her about it and tell her how u feel. U don't know maybe the liquor might of given her an excuse 2 do something she's BEEN wanting 2 do.
2006-10-31 02:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by 4u2nv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop it. i've been in her situation before. she probably doesnt remember a thing, and seeing that she was drunk she probably didnt mean a thing by it. i kiss everyone when im drunk, i cant help it either.
2006-10-31 02:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by srf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mention it to her and see whatz up with that, and if shes your friend you should advise her not to drink if shes going to be loose like that maybe she never needs to drink again. THATS JUST NASTY!!!! and after you talk to her you really need to think about keeping her as a bestfriend.
2006-10-31 02:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. Bossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋