he still wants to see me. but i changed my numbers and have not replied to any messages. now its been sometime but i still feel alone
2006-10-31 02:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by morena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You feel alone cos you do not have a closure about the relationship. see him, talk with him till you can prove to yourself that you are over him
2006-10-31 02:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Loral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are differently doing the right thing. Once you lose that trust in each other trying to go back will never work. Don't feel sorry for him because he didn't feel sorry for you when he left you... You need to start going out with friends and start dating ,this will help you get on with your life. Being lonely really sucks and it mostly happens at night have slumber parties (never to old) or stay over at a friends until you start realizing being by yourself could be more relaxing then anything....
2006-10-31 02:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by kelliejo0875 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing. If he has cheated on you and is not willing to stop or change you don't need him. I have been down that road and I know. I didn't think I could do this on my own but I did with God's help. Get you a cat or small dog will help you form being lonely I did and it really helps. Because you will take time up with the animal and they love on you and are always there. They also know when you need them to love on you. Hope this helps.
2006-10-31 02:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by pooh-42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he changed? How would you know? Let him talk to someone you trust, like your mother or grandmother. If your mother thinks he has repented, then maybe MAYBE you might see him in a public place.
Have a person with you, a safe guard. Don't let this guy follow you home.
Maybe better, let him write to you, and exchange letters to see his thoughts. Is he doing well other wise? Does he use alcohol and drugs? Does he gamble? Go through the gamut of questions. Don't go back to him if he's still at his old games.
All humans deal with loneliness from time to time. Don't let this weaken your resolve. He wronged you. He has to repent and make amends. Not just want you back, just to use you.
2006-10-31 02:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is alone hun. everyone. regardless of whether or not you have a bf.
you did the right thing. why would you even want to be around a guy that left you for someone else??
did you cheat on him or something? or was he just a no good guy?
next time, go for the guy that will treat you with respect and love you. that means do NOT go for the thug type guys
go for the guys that are cute and a little shy. the ones you may have not payed attention to.
2006-10-31 02:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Little Black Riding Hood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. If you go back he'll just make you feel miserable after a while and then lonely again. Know its a wave that will pass, go out and talk to friends, meet people, work, just keep busy and time will do the trick. If you speak to him you'll go through this each and every time,
2006-10-31 02:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Invaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still feel alone because you perhaps miss having someone around. If you let him come back, he'll just leave you again or cheat on you. That isn't worth it. There are better guys out there and when you find one you'll be much happier. Trust me, it'll happen when you least expect. Yes, you did the right thing. You saved yourself more hurting later on.
2006-10-31 02:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing and you are doing the right thing. The loneliness will pass and you will be able to get one with your life. Right now you are grieving, and grieving takes a lot of energy.
It's really HIS loss, you know.
2006-10-31 02:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing! You deserve better than someone that left you for someone else!
2006-10-31 02:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not, and no wonder you feel alone you should have thought things out better before you did all those drastic things. Good luck
2006-10-31 02:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋