I moved out of town to be with high school sweetheart nothing is in my favor since I've been here.My truck has been stolen,I have'nt found a job,and he listens to my phone conversations and he's agravating.He do things to irratate me purposely he's childish not the ame person and I can't take no more!Do I leave when he's at work or be straight up?
2006-10-31 02:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be str8 up and leave go0d luck is it worth suffereing u seem like u lost a lot while he has lost nothing u deserve to be happy and if ur not leave u only have one life to live so live in...even if u might not have much wateva u have should make u happy which isnt
2006-10-31 02:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, move on.
Get an education-it appears you are in desperate need of direction in your life.
Your english is horrible. You will not go far without trying to improve yourself.
I am not trying to be unkind, but it looks like you have way too many issues!!!!
Nothing in your favor? Good things only come when you work at it. The operable word is WORK. Are you too good to work at fast food? If you think you are then you definitely better get an education!!!
2006-10-31 10:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by gagam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe move and then call him on your way out. To make you feel better, I moved from Cali to Mass to be with my hubby. I am in your position, no friends here, still looking for work, and trying to get my life in order (finding the right doctors, ect. ). If it wasn't for his listening to your conversations I would say sit tight, but that is too controlling for me. You should be able to talk on the phone without him listening. Just make sure whatever decision you make has been well thought out. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-31 10:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave when he's at work. He may not be the same person you fell in love with in High school. I dont think it would be to your favor to stay.
2006-10-31 10:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by malu622 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to face him and let him know what your intentions are. If it isn't working out, but you are willing to work it out, then you have to let him know so that he can change. If he doesn't agree w/ you or doesn't want to change it means that he doesn't care about the relationship and that's when you say "no more". Don't leave someone without letting them know what's going through your head, that is the worst feeling... think about it. Wouldn't you want your significant other to let you know why he is leaving you?
2006-10-31 10:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im glad you know to leave.This one is simple if he is abusive go when he is at work. If he is not be straight but i guarentee if he is listening to your conversations he is abusive and I think you need to just make your move when he is not there.This doesnt sound like a guy who is gonna take you being honest very well. Look out for your own safety you come first. Just go please
2006-10-31 10:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by maryann c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if I were u I would have left his sorry *** long time ago. If he doesn't appreciate u, what is there to gain out of the relationship ?
2006-10-31 10:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Adonis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be straight up with him and tell him you're leaving his sorry ---! Unless you think he'll be violent, then I'd leave while he was at work.
2006-10-31 10:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live him when ever dont let that man do that to you us woman need more respect than that
2006-10-31 10:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave when his at work........and hid all his important documents.....that would teach him a lesson!!!
2006-10-31 10:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Adele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋