This is happen to me recently too. My emoitions has been through alot of pain and stress; Yet she think i still love her, but to be frank, i just want some space right now.And to add spice to this drama, I beginning to look for another girl.
Can anyone tell me if i should do the right thing by leaving her ?
thanks!!
2006-10-31 02:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by Doc Rick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, we have not talk alot like we used to and in think that is our issue.
Is communcation vital in all realtionships?
2006-10-31 03:56:46 · update #1
Don't pretend. Just tell her you need to talk to her. Explain everything to her. Communication is the best policy. If you want a different girl, tell her and break all ties. Try to end on a good note. If you still do love and care for your gf maybe you two can find a solution and if she cares she'll give you the space you need and she'll be there for you. Good luck.
2006-10-31 02:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is a really tough sitch. The only way to tell her, is to tell her. You don't have to truly "dump her" though. Just tell her that you need some space for a little while. Then see if she leaves you alone. If she keeps pestering you, then you have the right to dump her. If she leaves you alone for a while, then just let yourself and her forget that you were ever together. She might start to bug you about going out again eventually, but you can cross that bridge when you come to it.
2006-10-31 02:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you need space ,so does your girlfriend.She will take time to realize that you have lost interest in her.So give her time and meanwhile never let another girl enter your drama till that time since it might add fuel to this and your relationships may worsen or maybe even explode.Relationships take a lot of time to bulid and as well as to break up.You can slowly convince and tell her by talking to her slowly and calmly.She will understand it.
2006-10-31 02:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by tej 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only do what feels right for you...... if you think its time to leave then leave. Mkae sure you tell her in person, and explain to her why. Just be honest and no matter how she takes it right now she will appreciate it in the long run and you'll know you did the right thing
2006-10-31 02:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i does no longer even think of two times. it is not comparable to she awakened one morning and replaced into like "good day! i think of I wanna get raped on the instant. Yep!" What? Haha. No, i'm specific she might savour it in case you probably did no longer make it a great deal. regardless of each little thing, getting over something that demanding in all probability took her an prolonged time. So do your ultimate to blow it off. sturdy success and God bless! (:
2016-11-26 20:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you go and look for another girl, i think you should sit down and talk to her about how you feel. a relationship is a mutual understanding of both parties but when one of them is no longer happy, then there is no sense in going on. be frank about what you feel. it will hurt her a lot cuz she still loves you but she will get over it in time.
2006-10-31 02:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed in a marriage for 4 years without love. IT SUCKS!!! Spare yourself the drama. Just tell her the truth. You will sleep like a baby. I did. So go.
2006-10-31 02:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of done her a favor and left her before you started looking. This is just wrong and I am sure she would be getting on with her life if she new she had such a non caring boyfriend.
2006-10-31 02:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by kelliejo0875 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't make a whole lot of sense. You say you want space but you also say your starting to look at another girl. Which is it??
2006-10-31 02:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sara G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no right thing, and easy way to do this, so just be honest with her and tell her in a direct way.
2006-10-31 02:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋