I am in love ...my friends say its just a crush....IS THAT TRUE...?
2006-10-31 01:57:14 · 25 answers · asked by Arpit S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's true, probably just a crush, keep it in yer pants, go slow, let the Sleeping Giant lay for 2 more years. Finish school, get a job, nice car, join the service, etc. Then and only then....start thinking about getting involved with ( a lover ) more school, working harder, spending more, fighting different battles, raising kids, and learning to balance the good with the bad to keep that Love.
2006-10-31 02:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by twostories 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats Man - welcome to the gang of lovers. Well my first love was at the age of 14. She was 1 year senior to me in school. Sheer infactuation. When i think of it i still laugh and what i used to do.
Now your problem - Weather its a crush or it is love. right???
1. When you are alone, do you miss her, b4 you sleep do you keep thinking bout her. - do you dream of spending your whole life with her - well if yes then its just infactuation. be with her and forget it.
2. including above all - you feel you care for her - your heart pounds out for her when you see her. you don't like other girls any more - then its step 1 of love. Love is nurturing.
Is you are at point 2- then try to get closer to this girl. Understand what she wants. Best of luck.
2006-10-31 14:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by zarar don 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it is most likely to be a crush (beleive me i know) The difference with a crush and actually be in love with someone has a big difference.A crush is something that could last awhile but being in love could last forever...
2006-10-31 10:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 16 Love is much to strong of a word to be using at this point.
2006-10-31 09:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many high school sweethearts out there that been together since highschool . I dont know if you are in love, but I am sure it feels like that too you. These kinds of love makes us relize when we find that someone we want to spend the rest of our life with. Let nature take its course and see where you end up.
2006-10-31 10:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by kelliejo0875 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel as if you "love" her and she "loves" you back then I say enjoy the time you have together. Alot of people use the word love too often. Some people feel as if they are unloved that they just need to hear someone say it to them. I hope you 2 have very strong feelings for each other and I hope it lasts. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 11:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by sunshineprincess032003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feelings are feelings ( but at your age sometimes you can be deceived) So, I say just have a cool, friendly relationship with her now and then consider something serious in the future (if you still have those same feelings) Good Luck <33
2006-10-31 10:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bekah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel you're in love then you're in love. Don't listen to the blah blah some of us older people will give you about not being old enough to be in love or know what is it. Your feelings right now are true and real.
2006-10-31 10:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you can picture being with her all your life, live with her and deal with her problems, buy her starbucks everymorning, having her tell you to clean, be quiet and leave her alone when she wants, then yes its love. Im 20 and felt that way when I was 17. We are still together but keeping it steady and taking vacations together to see how we are when were with eachother none stop. I say, just wait it out, dont scare her in thinking your the one or she'll freak out and end it. Trust me, hold on.
2006-10-31 10:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Brevin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes i think its just a crush your age is small to love
2006-10-31 10:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋