I don't know why this guy took things so seriously really? He knows I am in love with another guy and I told him I could never love him and we can just be good friends but it seems he won't talk to me anymore. I havent seen him in over 4 years and I really don't think he wanted me for a girlfriend. I did make some mistakes and told him that I called my BF his name and sent him the wrong message but I told him again I could never love him and now he disappeared..he may have some difficulty getting to a computer but b4 I made the mistaks he would come online after no..he even told he could never be angry so what his problem. I don't want to hurt him he was a good friend
2006-10-31 01:57:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried leaving messages and he never answered me so I canceled him off my IM wwas this wrong?
2006-10-31 02:06:24 · update #1
it probabaly hurt him anyways and its totally understandable he wants to move on....i react the exact same way he does when lovin someone without getting it back....for some ppl its just impossible to be friends with someone they loved, slept with or still have feelings for them....by being ur friend still he`d only be hurting himself more...picture yourself in his shoes>>>u r in lov with this guy sooo much and he doesnt feel the same, u see him with all these other girls being so romantic, passionate n all, everything he will never b with u , wouldnt it hurt seeing that? well thats exactly how he feels so its best to leave him alone and let him move on with his life...there isnt much u can do, its his choice and he knows whats best for him...sorry
2006-10-31 02:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by mery b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time he will understand... the way carma works ... he will grow into a hot hunk a man with as huge wallet and a stable life .... you'll run into him later and go ....Wow ... just then he will notice you and ..... wham! you dogma will get run over by your carma !
It's the murphy's law thing .....
But don't you worry he will remember...above all else that you can never think of him as a "intimate partner"
Men have feelings too..... well a few do .... well I'm sure a few do.....
Try to treat folks the same way you would want to be "let down easily" by someone who isnt interested ...take the time to consider the other persons feelings ... Then the person still won't be happy .. but may later come to understand .
Never tell the other person "you only date in your own species"
That one stings a bit !
2006-10-31 10:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off u have/had feelings 4 this guy and he knew it u just did not realize it, and u have urself 2 blame 4 him not talking 2 u anymore because u did not realize that u needed 2 be with your BEST FRIEND and not with that other guy, u said it urself that he made sacrafices u getting 2 a computer to just chat with u, hmmmm seems like u made a mistake.
2006-10-31 10:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time he needs to get himself together and u knoe u were honest with him so dont think its ur fault but u knoe if u can just email him and let him know that u r dere for him as a friend weneva he is ready
2006-10-31 10:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows what guys really think about. just move on. if he wants to be your friend then he will be your friend. if not, his loss!
2006-10-31 10:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He chose to move on.
2006-10-31 10:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dgsyryyr
2006-10-31 09:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by desiree m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be .. he'll come around when he'll be over you ..
2006-10-31 09:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by ef f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋