Ok hers the thing my bf calls me the other night (which is fine, right) well the thing is he called 23 times! Like a minute aprat and the thing is we already talked like and hour before that ... so whats up with that... What should I think of it?
2006-10-31 01:51:23 · 39 answers · asked by Bekah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is either desperate or just immature. Set some limits and if he can't follow them, then let him go.
2006-10-31 01:54:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After the 5th time you should have told him to stop. Did you even answer the phone then at all? What did you say to him? What did he say back? Noone calls 23 times in 23 minutes unless they are either insane or being ignored.
xo
2006-10-31 02:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by not_so_shygrl4grls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something revolutionary like switch the phone off. Tell whoever you live with that you are not in and not taking any calls. Do not go on line. Do it for one evening and then when you see him next, tell him you like nothing better sometimes than a quiet night in alone and you are so glad that he appreciates that enough to allow you the space to do that by not calling you on that day.
Hopefully, he will take the hint.
2006-10-31 01:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's gonna sound lame but honesty is going to be your best route in this case. ask him straight out why he was calling so much. was he upset? did he think you were mad? most likely he called the first few times and found it strange that you didn't answer. then he either got worried as to why you weren't answering (good sign b/c he cares/wants to make sure you're ok) or pissed off that you were ignoring his phone calls (bad sign b/c it shows he might be a little jealous or distrusting). either way this is not a question for us to solve; ya'll gotta talk it out to get the the root of the problem.
2006-10-31 02:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of al i would freak out cuz i would think something happened to him if not then i would be like wats ur problem and tell him if i dont pick up the first time either leave me a message or a text message and i'll call u as so0n as i get it relax
2006-10-31 01:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a stalker in the making. Tell him to stop calling you so much or it is over.
2006-10-31 02:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by get the facts right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound's like a real nut case. Quit taking his call's and stay away from him. People like him have a mental problem and you could wind up hurt or dead. This old lady talking has seen people like him. Good luck, stay safe.
2006-10-31 02:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I had a bf who did that exact thing and it was so funny and weird. Tell him to stop it. is he insecure? Or does he really need to talk to you more. I honestly don't know how to answer your question, but I have been through this so I know how you feel.
2006-10-31 01:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by CuteCaribChic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea: talk to him about it. Have you asked him why? Maybe his phone kept hitting redial and he had no idea. Could be a completely innocent situation, so don't freak out until you find out his side.
2006-10-31 01:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very insecure. He's trying to keep tabs on you, making sure you are not on the phone with someone else, making sure you are at home.
2006-10-31 01:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋