English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

I hate this ***** … I have this ***** for a gf she is the most over bearing, controlling, jealous ***** I have ever came in contact with. Here’s the story this morning I ask her to give me my most up dated picture (in witch I will give back) of me so I could put it in my facebook account she has this HUGH problem with me being on facebook because she thinks that I am going to use it as a dating service but I told her that the only reason that I am on facebook is to find people that I have not seen in years….. but here is the thing the ***** is on facebook but she does not want me on facebook what’s up with that ****.

What I am asking how can I get the ***** to break up with me I tried everything I mean Everything just last night we got in an argument about me having the facebook account. Guess what this ***** did put her finger in my face and twist my arm right no big deal for her. This is what I did grab her by the neck and choke; strangle her till her eyes turn red ask the

2006-10-31 01:48:26 · 26 answers · asked by c b 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

This is what I did grab her by the neck and choke; strangle her till her eyes turn red ask the ***** to leave my house the ***** would not leave. So we talked then guess what I ask the ***** to Suck my Dick and guess what she did. What is wrong with her? Why want she leave me the **** alone the ***** tells me that she loves me at least 17 times a day……. 17 times a day I respond with either whatever or my fav shut up
Please help me b/c I don’t love this ***** how can I break up with her for good b/c she want leave.

2006-10-31 01:48:48 · update #1

all of you are right but i tried all these things you guys want me to do but she still will not leave me alone. talking, letters, they will not work it's like she is obsess or something i am not a bad guy at all is that she will not let me go on with my life
AND I AM NOT ABUSIVE MY MOTHER WAS KILLED BY THE GUY YOU WOULD CALL MY DAD WHE I WAS 2 YEARS OLD SO I AM NOT ABUSIVE PERSON IT JUST HAPPEN I AM SORRY TO ALL OF YOU GUYS FORGIVE ME

2006-10-31 02:17:54 · update #2

26 answers

ummmmm yeah this will not be fun, but here it goes first off buy females perfume ! then u start hanging out 10,15,20 minutes more than usual go 2 a bar or a friends house do whatevere. Right before u go into the house spray some perfume on "LIGHTLY" then go into the house run straight 4 the shower and jump in.! leave the shirt u just sparyed with perfume out but take jeans and underwear in with u LOCK the door. and then when she starts accusing u of cheating u tell her that u feel u should see other people and that u dont feel the same. u see how u "PRETEND" like ur cheating and that way u dont have complete guilt over your head,good luck remember LIGHTLTY,LEAVE SHIRT OUT,EVERYTHING ELSE IN AND LOCK THE DOOR. DO THAT LIKE 3,4. TIMES A WEEK

2006-10-31 01:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0 0

abuse isnt the answer to any problems, if u feel that u still love her despite those actions have a talk and try to fix things...if u feel like this is too much for u then break up. she could be abuusive because of her own insecurities which she takes out in the form of anger. she is probably scared of something or doesnt trust u. if u r positive u wanna break up but she wont let u this is what u do...tell her you 2 are done with eachother , arent getting along and it is time to move on, just tell her it straight up, dont give any hints cauz they might not get to her, after this lose all contact, dont speak to her thru the phone, in person, mails, nothin cauz that only leads to a posssibility of u 2 getting back. dont respond to any forms of contact with her and after a few months when she ;eaves u alone for good u can start going out again cauz by then she will kno its over and probably wont kill if she ever meets u somewhere out on the street...

2006-10-31 01:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by mery b 1 · 0 0

Wow. You sound like an upstanding guy.....geez. First of all, just break up with her. How hard is it? You shouldn't be asking for a bj from someone that you dont' want anymore. What's wrong with you? Sounds like you both have major problems. She's jealous and I can see why! You don't treat her very well. Maybe if you were calm in explaining everything to her and respecting her, then maybe she wouldn't be so controlling ya know? Stop doing the same things with her. Change your ways and maybe she'll change hers......you're a coward for not leaving her.

2006-10-31 01:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0 0

Tell her to leave. Don't tell her when you guys are arguing, she will just think you are mad and not take you seriously. Sit her down and tell her to her face, in a calm way, that it is not working out and she needs to go. Tell her she has until the end of the week or you will change the locks and throw her things in the front yard. If she doesn't leave, remove her things from your place and change the locks. It is that simple. You can't continue to have sex with her while you are waiting though. She will think you changed your mind and want her to stay. Good Luck.

2006-10-31 01:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

just tell her to get out pack her stuff in a big hefty bags and sit them out side the house and go get door locks at home depo.change the locks and if she keeps hanging out front then call the p.o. on her you need to stay as far from her as possable she has gotten underneath your skin so bad that you are hitting her back that's not good you are going to get in to so much trouble try not to put your hands on her just leave her alone buy your locks and put all her stuff out side and don't bother with her she has mental problems .she should also know that men by nature are stronger than women she should have not put her hands on you either .theres no excuse for that but before you do it again or worst get her out just like i said don't wait it will only get worst .she has no trust in you and no respect and now that has caused you to do the same she sounds like some type of sickness get rid of it before you pass it on in what ever new relationship you get .................. good luck

2006-10-31 02:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by mari 3 · 1 0

Well I dont know if she is as bad as you make her out to be. But if you are that miserable in this relationship, you need to tell her. But tell her when you are not mad and choking her. Tell her in a reasonable state so she knows you are not just saying that because you are mad at the time. Then if she doesnt take the hint. Pack her bags for her. But is this your place or her/ or both. Maybe your the one who should leave.

2006-10-31 01:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 1 0

Whoa, well you lucky she didn't go to the cops on yo a*s fa choking her, cause that couldn've been me..but anyways get a restraining order, seriously. Just break up with her man, I mean talk to her let her know what's up with your feelings towards her and hopefully she'll understand, but you hittin her and all that is not gon help..

2006-10-31 01:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tia 2 · 0 0

I honestly don't know how you would get her to leave. She sounds extremely feebleminded to me. Any woman that would stay with an abusive, unappreciate guy like you has to be a complete and total idiot. Maybe she's that way because of lack of oxygen to her brain while you were choking her?

2006-10-31 01:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Avie 7 · 0 0

every story has two sides we are only hearing one side however you seem to enjoy this lil game if in fact its all true i dont know of any guy that a women could twist his arm or any women that would allow her self too be strangled if this is all true you both need help and if you really wanted her out all you need to do is pack her stuff change your locks if this fails theres the deputys that would escort her out and theres alil thing called restraining order if shes that wacked out seems you enjoy your lil weird game too much to boot her asss out

2006-10-31 02:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 1 0

Find another girl to go out with. Be seen with the new girl by your old GF. However, if your chokeing your old GF, good luck on finding a new one. You can also kick her out (if its your house) and get a restraining order on her. She'll get the hint.

2006-10-31 01:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by D.C 4 · 1 0

fedest.com, questions and answers