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I am 21 not bad looking well i am not sure i suppose thats really up to the person thats looking at me, but i cant seem to find someone who i have alot in common with i havent been in a relationship in a while due to being hurt in the past but now i find myself missing the coupley things people do like staying in and lying all over each other watchin TV or trips out and all the other stuff. there has been only one person in my whole life who ive done all that with (She Cheated) and i am scared i may never find that again because the people i meet theres just no spark and end up finsihing it and looking the bad guy. i know i am young and at my age i dont need a relationship but when i was and it was good i cant remember being happier.

i know this question is a bit stupid but its been on my mind lately and is important to me

2006-10-31 01:45:53 · 4 answers · asked by Ben H 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

You've been hurt very badly and it's going to take some time for you to let your guard down. You may not have had a 'spark' with anyone b/c that wall is still up and you're looking at women differently right now, which is to be expected. Just wait. Don't go looking for love. It will come when least expected, okay? Just treat her with faith/love/honesty. Explain to your future girl that you've been hurt and you want someone that you can trust with your heart (when that time comes).

2006-10-31 01:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0 0

YOU'RE TOO YOUNG FOR A RELATIONSHIP!!! Go out into the world and meet a few women first. Live life while you can because it goes by so fast. Enjoy your youth and strength. Tell a woman how pretty you think she is or ask someone if thy want go to a party with you. I'm not telling you to go out there and be a whore but I am saying that you're too serious right now. Don't even think about settling down till your 28 at the earliest and 40 at the latest. Look in the mirror and say, "I'm Rick James, *****!"

2006-10-31 02:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You just need to get back out there and start dating again. There are a lot of girls who would love to meet a good guy that wants to have a relationship. Give it some time and don't compare everyone to the girl from your past. You'll be back in action in no time. Keep dating and you'll find someone special again if you just give it time. Good Luck!

2006-10-31 02:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0 0

Hey thanks for answering my question ( email buddy)
sadly you left no email addie or alow it on your homepage so i can not contact u
but feel free to email me or add me to msn
picklebear@hotmail.co.uk
and regards your question
it sounds really tuff for you, we should chat more about it, when you can get in touch
luv claire xxx

2006-10-31 04:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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