I've been single for about 5yrs now and it's all because I don't trust men. I not saying all men are bad, but it's just that it's so hard to find one that will have you true interest at heart. And if you do find a good man most likely he's already in a relationship. Does love still abound?
2006-10-31 01:43:13 · 26 answers · asked by Mickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are out there, but you just have to know where to look for them
2006-10-31 01:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
Is being a Christian a big plus for you? Because God and the Bible and my belief and faith in both affect how I act and the things I say in life and in my relationships. I'm currently not in one but that doesn't mean that I'm not in search of miss right because I am. LOL. Yes true love exist. Maybe the reason you can't find a man is because all you see or want to see is the negative and what's wrong with all of them. If that's your attitude about it then NO man is good enough for you. Second you need to learn to trust people and let your defenses down. If it's true love then why would he whoever he is even think of hurting you? He wouldn't. Don't give up girl friend your special some one is out there just keep on the look out and have faith in yourself and in love on it. More important ask God for help. He'll never fail you.
2006-10-31 01:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come visit some of the more traditional societies, such as the Amish, the Quakers, the Hassidic Jews. There, you will probably find more stability, more honesty in the way people deal with each other, and very little or none of the chaos you find in secular society.
Take your pick.
Love still does abound. You have to search for it. Life is an adventure. Don't be afraid to take the ride.
2006-10-31 01:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
certainly this sounds like a own challenge. men might want to take care of girls those with understand, and women human beings might want to take care of guys with understand. as far because the girl's be conscious on sex being absolute and intensely last: nicely, for us it really is that if it really is a "no" with a valid reason. If he has a valid rationalization for saying "not this evening", then it really is going to also be taken as a very last answer. even as the girl receives dealt with like he doesnt even be conscious her till it really is time for mattress, and then all he needs is sex, obviously shes going to decline. If she doesn't have a valid rationalization for saying no (and a headache each and every evening doesn't count number as valid), then possibly you 2 want to have a communication. consider how typically you 2 copulate, and what you do interior something of a few time concerning the different. quite, I take care of my boyfriend like my equivalent. he's not my puppy. he's not my "toddler". often times i think like he treats me as a a lot less knowledgeable human being than he, because he's conventional with something about a topic i became not in any respect interested in, yet that doesn't count number. we are an same. So what if i visit't do physics and calculus. He can't bake or stitch. equivalent. doesn't count number.
2016-12-05 09:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is love... And it's up to you to give it a chance. It takes a lifetime to get to really know someone. Once you've picked through the weeds and find a flower, give it time,patience, understanding, and even second chances. We keep thinking that there is going to be something better around the corner. What about really giving a chance to someone standing in front of you?
Trust yourself first and then trusting someone else will come...
2006-10-31 01:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! I am the opposite. I am a male who hasn't been in a relationship for a while. I am having a hard time finding the right lady. Faith is my only shelter in this issue. I believe the lord has a special lady out there for me and I just haven't found her yet. Pray about it and that your anxiety won't get you down. Things will work out.
2006-10-31 01:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are, what a silly question. Change where you frequent and the type of men you talk to. You're bad choices does not constitute no good men being available.
2006-10-31 01:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by ~Gate~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My now husband was asking the same questions, only in reverse! He laughs and states that he had to import a woman (we lived in two different states) who shared his thoughts, loves and interests! We've both been in the relationships from hell and I wouldn't give him up for the world!
They're out there... just not always under your nose.
2006-10-31 01:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good man but i'm considering changing to a bad one. After my last relationship it was totally pointless to be a good man. It's women that cause men to be bad.
2006-10-31 01:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by TheAnwserer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No And don't believe that crap about all the good ones being married the rest of us also didn't have a choice so we married a bad one and it turned out great.If you think about it are you or us women for that matter really so perfect?? Just a thought.
2006-10-31 02:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty out there.
Women are just as decietful if not more so than men.
The question is are you ready for a good man if you find him?
Everytime I hear a woman say she just wants a good man, when she finds him she suddenly needs "space".
Careful what you wish for.
2006-10-31 01:47:48 · answer #11 · answered by M.B. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋