My bf and I have been together for about 6 months now ... its been a pretty good relationships (its had its ups and downs) Anyway, the thing is whenever were out together ... He is always checking out other girls ... what should I do about it? Should I confront him about it and tell him I hate it when he does it or should I just blow it off? (cuz it really bothers me when he does it, cuz im like dude were out together and all you can think about doing is checking out other chicks!)
2006-10-31 01:32:41 · 5 answers · asked by Bekah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it bothers you, tell him. If he really wants to be with you, he should respect you enough to at least cut that out when you're together. I dont think their is a problem with looking, but that's something he should save for when he's out with the guys ((Admit it, you check out guys when you're with the chicks))...either way, he should cut it out when you two are together. If he can't respect that, be prepaired because the lack of respect will slowly creep into other areas and it's going to be something you'll have to ask yourself if you're willing to put up with...hopfully, you know that disrespect isn't something anyone should put up with.
2006-10-31 01:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by bscottsbabygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you know he is a guy and can't help checking out other women and that you know he can't stop, but if and when he does it in your presence, could he be a little more discrete about it. Tell him that being obvious about it makes you uncomfortable and shows you disrespect, and it makes him look stupid and immature. Don't get shrill about talking to him - just use a normal calm voice.
2006-10-31 09:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it bothers you and ask him how would he feel if you were checking out other guys when yall are together.
2006-10-31 09:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never really had to deal with the situation but if I did I wouldn't allow for him to do that in front of me. Its just disrespectful and rude. I would tell him, "hey mister!! I'm ya lady...don't do that crap in front of me." No telling what he may be doing while ur not around.
2006-10-31 09:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Virgo Fa Sho!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it then you need to talk to him about it, if he continues to do this then start doing it back, WHEN he confronts you about it then tell him you just wanted him to see what it feels like
2006-10-31 09:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋