2006-10-31 01:16:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily, spoken language plays only a small part in communication. I worked with foreigners who spoke virtually no english, and its amazing how well you can communicate without language. If you are in a relationship with someone, you will know them more intimately, and will understand their facial expressions, body language, tone of voice and other behaviours on a deep level which allows very effective communication. The better you get to know them, the more you will understand them. The spoken word plays only a very small part in the process of communication and understanding.
2006-10-31 02:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could lead to some misunderstandings, unless you have some other language in common that you can communicate, but it could be a motivator for your partner to study English harder, thus it need not be an issue for long. When you feel the strain, it helps to assume you misunderstood and ask for clarification, very gently as not to hurt his feelings; cultural differences, however, are more difficult to deal with, and I would suggest you find out as much as possible about his background. Would his family accept you? Will your family accept him? If yes you have a good chance to find long lasting happiness in your partnership. Good luck!
2006-10-31 01:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can sometimes,especially when either of us want to make a point right away..and have a hard time finding words we both understand!
The second problem is phone calls, I understand only about 20% of what he is saying..yes I know it's rude to listen in to someones conversation..but he speaks very loudly over the phone, so I don't have much of a choice.
At any rate it is much easier to misinterpret things being said.
But with patience, and a great sense of humor anything can be overcome!
2006-10-31 01:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by kat k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not directly and the English skills will improve trough time with their communication. It may present some work related problems however which could indirectly affect the relationship..
2006-10-31 01:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly it does. How can I say that? Because it happened to one of my friend. She has great English skills, he doesn't. She tried to put it aside and ignore it, but eventually, she couldn't handle it anymore. If the partner has no desire to learn and improve, your patience will wear out.
2006-10-31 01:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically,yes,there'd be a language barrier.
A new language can be taught and picked up easily.
Universally,no,LOVE is the language itself.
Being attentive and patient helps you understand each other better,that way the relationship can improve faster than it should.
2006-10-31 01:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my b/f (now fiance) for 5 years, when we got together his english was not very good. But as life goes on so he improves. And i love it when he pronounce something wrong. It sounds so cute
2006-10-31 01:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on how much u love ur partner. If u really love him/her this issue doesnt arise.Knowing english is not the ultimate req. of life, isnt it?
2006-10-31 01:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by surendra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say at the start it would maybe be a bit frustrating but i'd say it would get better in time... i dont see how you could fall in love with somebody if you cant talk to each other and get to know each others personality etc but everyone to their own i suppose.
2006-10-31 01:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not in bed, but otherwise.
On the other hand, you can spend some time helping each other with your own languages. It may be fun and rich for individual experiences.
2006-10-31 01:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by eliana s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋