My boyfriend and I have been fighting no stop!! He says Im useless but then he says he sorry for saying that. BUt I dont think he means it.... He says alot of stuff but when he says im useless he sorry to that. Does he say that to dump me or does he what me to dump him...... im not sure about none of it. Ohhh he starts the fights between us. HELP!!!!!
2006-10-31 00:50:44 · 14 answers · asked by skull 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you deserve better. Leave him if he didn't want you to he'll straighten up his act and ask you back out. If he did want that it'll be obvious by the way he act. For instants, if he starts telling you everything he said about you when he apologized for it he didn't mean it when he said sorry cuz if he did he wouldn't be saying it again! Good Luck Shorti241!
2006-10-31 01:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by shorti241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think its time to give each other a break. cool off for a while. give each other space so that both of you can try to think about what is wrong with the relationship. Being together will only make the tension worse. So, let each other go for a while. If during this temporary break off, you both feel that you miss each other, then, kiss and make up. But if you find out that you are better off without each other,then, break up permanently.
2006-10-31 08:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. all the fighting can definitely ruin a relationship; it's not healthy for either one of you. If you think the sparks ain't there anymore between you two, talk it out & maybe it's time to move on. It will be better for both of you.
2006-10-31 08:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by malu622 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to get rid of him. You don't deserve to be treated that way by anyone.
He sounds just mean and if he knows he can kick you around he will. It may even escalate. Walk now while you can.
Abuse usually starts with verbal and that is what telling you "you are useless" is. Get out now.
2006-10-31 08:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Hopey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you both just need a little break....this may not be the best though! If your tired of it then break up with him. If he really wants to be with you,he'll come back. If not then you know that all he wanted to do was break up with you. Sorry I couldn't be more help. Good Luck!
2006-10-31 08:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. He is being mentally abusive. You don't deserve it. Don't try to figure it out any further. Next time he says it simply reply- well maybe it's time for me to find someone else who has a use for me. Don't put up with it. It only gets worse.
2006-10-31 08:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whata jackass. even if hes not trying to make you dump him, dump him anyways.
you dont deserve to be called "useless". ever. you deserve respect.
2006-10-31 08:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wou;dn't care what he wants if my man said I was useless I'd leave him.
2006-10-31 09:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-31 08:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Carioca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says, you are usless, thats how he is trying to make you feel. You don't need a bf , who tries to make you feel bad
2006-10-31 08:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋