the only reason i am prego is because my x raped me. but my boyfriend is in sc for bct for the army. what do you think i should do my x and my boyfriend already don't like each other because my x wanted to fight me and i told my boyfriend and he got mad. i want my child to know their father but i am not sure i want him to know them though. help
2006-10-31 00:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by a.d lovez trina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am suppose to be engaged with my boyfriend who is in bct he already knows about what happen i sent it to him in email and in voice mail he just hasn't been able to read or listen to it and reply.
2006-11-01 05:34:11 · update #1
Well... you need to tell your current boyfriend the situation so he knows what happened...
also this is a very twisted situation...i think you should report it, rape is a very serious thing.
Anyway, if you don't tell him what happened he might think you cheated on him.
Good luck and best wishes
2006-10-31 00:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is there father but it sounds like they have a dad and don't need him tell them when they are older and will understand what rape means they don't need to know that there fathers a nasty a** I don't have a dad but I have a father and step-father and i'm still loved I have guys that say if I ever need anything I can come to them and one has a kid 2 years older then me and one thats 1 year younger but he says he as 3 kids he even tells my real father that so they do not need him
2006-10-31 01:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will both react to you having a baby? Do you think either one will want to marry you? In the end, the one who stays and loves you is the one who will take care of you....so does it matter who the father, is that your child should know?
2006-10-31 00:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a difference between being a father and being a daddy. being a father means you gave the sperm to make the baby however, being a daddy means you are there for the child to love and support it. remember that.
2006-10-31 00:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went to sc for basic, fort jackson, and although its not that tough, try to leave him out of this for awhile. only give him positive support and send him good news, or it makes it very difficult to get through.
2006-10-31 00:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in SC,email me
2006-10-31 00:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothin' like love in da hood.
2006-10-31 00:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pé na bunda dele,
2006-10-31 00:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Carioca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better ask those mdm mary column 4 advice...or call those helpline offer by the government..
2006-10-31 00:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by samdesign78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD TELL THEM BUT U SHOULD NEVER LET HIM TAKE THE KIDS B/C U NEVER KNO WAT HE WILL DO!hope i helped
2006-10-31 00:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by LACEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋