Ok if anyone saw my last question it was about a guy and me keeping our relationship a secret. Well secrets out. My whole school knows about me and this guy. I am popular and so is he except he is like all-american with sports and all. I am in sports just not as much as he is. He is one of the most popular boys in our school. Many people have started talking about me and him like its wrong. We both like each other but i am afraid that the high school drama will wreck what we have. Our secret has lasted almost two months so we were being real quiet and since we had class together it wasnt hard to not see him all day. How do i deal without letting the drama get to me.
2006-10-31 00:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just bring it out already! don't need to hide a relationship that is true... unless it is not?
do you love him? or just like? if it is just a liking.... have to think twice... it will ruin your relationships with the mates around ya.
2006-10-31 00:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Vendoras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you are not ashamed of anything do not worry about all this stuff what other people think. Move on in life, and never, ever worry about what other people think. In the long run what people think is not going to change anything. You should never follow the crowd, be an independent person and do your own thing. So what about the drama. The interesting thing is that the sun will still come up tommorrow and the moon will come out at night time and 100 years from now noone will even know about this. What I am saying you should not let other people have an effect on your life. Look either they like it or they don't. Either way if you and the guy are happy, that is really all that matters.
2006-10-31 08:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply have to choose to ignore it...look at it this way, high school relationships typically aren't that long lived anyway so all run its course regardless of the drama or not...
If you and the guy like each other, then enjoy the time you have and don't worry about what others say or think...you can't live your life for other people...as long as you are kewl with your behavior, and prepared to deal with any repercussions (should there be any)...take responsibility for your actions, go for it, and have fun...
2006-10-31 08:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mind what other people say..Don't let other people upset you either. If you and your guy like each other a lot the way you say you do just stay together and be happy....Who cares what other people think about it..As long as your happy is all that should matter...Good Luck!
2006-10-31 08:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st things 1st you need to get over yourself
i don't care how popular you are you're really not that cool
he.....he's not either
and in like a week nobody is gonna give a flyin **** especially not anyone on here
so just let the "drama" pass and grow up
does your mommy know you're on the computer little girl
2006-10-31 08:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both needed to talk about it. Decide your strategy before something goes wrong between you. Due to peoples talking too much about you guys, it might cause some misunderstandings. Both of you now need to keep your eyes, ears & brains open to solve upcoming problems. Both of you need to understand the mean of “Trust” on each other because its going to be tested now.
2006-10-31 08:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by emmshazi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been through this once before though its a little different from yours. just try to explauin to people that you like this guy not for what he is and why shouldnt he be able to like you back right? better yet, dont explain! let people think what they wanna think. but when they ask you nicely enough, it's laways best to answer or else theyll think your hiding something....
2006-10-31 08:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be worried about what other people talk about....You and your boyfriend should come first. Remember, Kids can be mean at times.
2006-10-31 08:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont let the high school drama wreak yall relationship if yall relation ship is strong then nothing can break it
2006-10-31 08:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by snook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what's beyond the classroom?
2006-10-31 08:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋