Me and this guy have been datin on and off for a while. We know we like eachother but everytime we think about getting back together we start arguing. I want to be with him so bad and I no if we tried things could be great, but all this drama is ruining our friendship. Why can't we stop aruguing and what should I do?
2006-10-31 00:19:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact that you ague all the time doesn't mean you can't be together if you want.
2006-10-31 00:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I have been together for 7 years and are went through the same thing that you are. I believe it is because you are both so passionate about your own opinions on things that it easily escalates into an argument. It is great that you keep trying to make it work because that means that you are loyal to one another. You have to learn to zip the lip once in a while(even when you know you are right). I did, and now we are getting married in June. Things have never been better!! Good luck!
2006-10-31 08:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Schwachter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you arguing because you each feel that you are right??? Or just to prove a point??? There has to be a reason that you are arguing!!! Try and figure some of this out before you make a more serious move. Good Luck.
2006-10-31 08:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds lik true love but gotta try and think of things yall did together to kept yall together try and think y yall were together and talk bout thats y yall should be together again cause yall share great times......Try not 2 argueing even if it kills u jus plyin. but think bout wat i said dit down and have a tlk and tell y yall should be together say u love eachother and DONT ARGUE< well try.hope it works out well cause argueing will reuine ur friendship.
2006-10-31 08:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever try just shutting up and letting things flow smoothly? What could you constantly find to argue about with someone you purport to love so deeply???
2006-10-31 08:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you argue all the time-isn't that a good sign that you guys were not meant to be together?
2006-10-31 08:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's always a chance. but if hes a guy like me and every other guy, he HATES drama. all men hate drama. its just something that ruins your life. maybe if you can just get past this, you'll be able to get along. just try to stay calm and be understanding, yelling never helps anything.
2006-10-31 08:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y'all can try sitting and talking about y'all differences and if that dont work then y'all are just not compatible and y'all just become and stay friends until y'all end up being nothing at all
2006-10-31 08:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by snook 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave his ***. see if he argues with you then.
2006-10-31 08:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋