me and my bf have just recently broke up because of uni! i am still in yr 13! the break up was mutual but i still rele like him! and while we were texting and breaking up he told me he will always love me! and he never said he loved me while we were goin out!! we speak about once or twice a week when we find time usualy texting or msn. and i was thinkin of texting him sayin do u ever think about me still?? or somethin like that? im not sure wt to do or wt to say help?
2006-10-31 00:06:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you have done is a very mature thing and i dont see the harm in continuing the friendship,,you and he may even learn more about each other because of it.friends take less crap than b/f,s so you will have to work hard with being a friend,,respect,consideration,maturity,,it all adds up and you will be a better person for it,then maybe when you and he are in a position to consider dating,,even if you dont date each other,the respect will be there to advise on who they should date.talk to the person you know,,dont figure just because the relationship has ended that all the work was for nothing,,if he talks to you now still he obviously likes you so continue talking and just see what happens.
2006-10-31 00:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey beckie, let me tell you this. It is hard I know (from personal experience), but you have to let go for now. When your ex or you goes to uni, he will definitely want to sample things he couldn't whilst in a relationship with you. In my experience when a couple get together quite young, they don't have the chance to experiment a little. Best thing is to get this experimentation out of the way and in a few years if you still love each other you will get together. If it's meant to be it will. If not there are plenty of other people out there, although it may not feel like it at the moment.
2006-10-31 00:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Andy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on go to the next one you sound very sensible and he never said that he loved you. I have had the same problem I went out with a girl who just split up with her boyfriend who she was besoted with she moved on to me. Now she is back with him because she didn't get over it with me. If you can be brave go out and venture onto new pastures while you are still young. I'm 34 and having to start over again so don't worry about him there are plenty more boyfriends out there for you. Only this time they will say they love you all of the time and mean it.
2006-10-31 00:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to not text him at all, it only makes you look desperate. I'm sorry to say you will have lots of boys come on to you and tell you they love you, usually for only one reason, sex.
So be careful with your heart. I know boys can get to you and break your heart, but be patient, and in a few years, I promise you will find the guy who will treat you special and actually turn out to be the love of your life.
2006-10-31 00:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hon I went through a simlar problema few months ago like this. I always had to ask my ex tell me he loved me. He always said "I showthrough actions". I told him I know actions speak louder then words. But some tiemes we need to here the words. We are women after all. Doesnt mean we dont loive them back.
What i did hon just let it die. I know it hard to do. But Let it dye. I kept my ex number on my phone months afte rwe broke up and it killed me not able to call him. But It took for ever to get over him hon. I truely undersatnd hon. It will be hard but in time you will see it was for the best hon. *huggles you tightly*
2006-10-31 00:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Spooky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is worth waiting for until uni is over or u want a long distance relationship, then i would definatley text him, if you feel very strong for him then dont throw it away because of uni, you could have something special but u never no until you try. So jus text him and explain your feelings and see what he says. xx
2006-10-31 00:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget the Bf and concentrate on your education. You only get one good chance at those qualifications for your career.
There are plenty of boys, and they CAN Wait.
2006-10-31 00:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you're obviously still keen on each other but uni does change peoples lives. Keep in touch if you want - as friends. Why not ask him that. It's reasonable.
2006-10-31 00:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on. he didnt change...
that guy is exactly the way he always has been, and always will be. have fun. move on, find someone new thats more like you.
( if he never spoke of love before, he wont in the future either)
2006-10-31 00:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by another detroit bassist 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should tex him. If he wants you he knows where to find you. Always try and get the guy to chase you, they'll appreciate you more then. Try going out with your mates to meet other people.
2006-10-31 00:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋