I have trust issues. How should I ask my girlfriend if she is being honest? Should I?
2006-10-30 22:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by worried 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if its your hang up no. if she is the one that gave you the trust issues yes
2006-10-30 22:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by xaangelinazx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would ask myself why I'm wondering if she's being honest. Gut instinct? The way she's acting about "insert issue here"? Did you see or read something? Etc... Or is it just a genereal paranoia?
If you do decide to ask her I would first explain the fact that you do have trust issues. Then go ahead and ask her if she was honest about "...". Be sure to explain what made you wonder whether or not she was being honest. And tell her how the whole thing makes you feel.
Honestly, the situation won't be pretty but thats the best way to go about it if you ask me.
2006-10-31 06:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have trust issues you should definitely ask her what's going on. If you are going to continue this relationship you've got to have a level of trust! Tell her that you are uncomfortable with a couple of things and you need for her to be honest with you.
2006-10-31 06:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. If you think she is being dishonest with you, then you have a right to know what is going on. There is no guarantee that she'll give you an honest answer, and I would expect an argument to arise, but it is how you feel and you have every right to know if she is honest or not.
2006-10-31 06:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to believe that she is fibbing to you, then by all mean's you should go ahead and ask her.tell her if any what the reason/reason's are that are causeing you to have trust issue's.I being a female wouldn't mind if my ole man asked me if he thought I was fibbing to him, and if your girlfriend is being honest with you about everything then she has no reason to get upset that you asked her....good luck darling!
2006-10-31 06:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you have trust issues, if you ask her if she is being honest and she says yes, you still will have trust issues.......
2006-10-31 06:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have trust issues, even if you ask her, could you trust her answer?
2006-10-31 06:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trust issues are with YOU, not her
you have the issue, there's no reason to ask her.
Why do you have this problem.?
what are you doing to help yourself.?
2006-10-31 06:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothin wrong in askin dat!just ask r u being truthful 2 me!
2006-10-31 06:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by sugar plum faery10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may ask, but if she weren't truthful she wouldn't tell u the truth anyway. so it is really useless to ask
2006-10-31 06:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋