Ive been dating this guy for a year, most of the time he calls me everyday, but then suddenly i dont hear from him for days. when i ask him why he says he was busy. am i being too possesive or insecure? thinking he is "playing" me
2006-10-30 22:29:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After a year, he should be calling you everyday. I wouldn't accept " being busy" as an answer. There is no reason for a boyfriend of a year to not call his girlfriend for a couple of days. You are not being possesive either. I would be worried to. Talk with him and let him know how you are feeling. That is exactly what I would do. Good luck.
2006-10-30 22:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things lik that will come up dont be so abessed wit him i kno he is urs nd all but give him time maybe he will grow out of it. Sometimes guys do that rearly but in this situation i dont see ur doin anything wrong so sit bac relax and let him come 2 u dont chase after him cause i can see ur better then that. I dont think he is plyin u and ur not bein insecure or possesive jus be a lil bit of both.
2006-10-31 06:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he usually calls every day and then stops I think it was right for you to ask him about it. I'd let it go this time and if he does it again tell him you need to know what's going on with him.I wouldn't give up on him yet...he's only done this once.
2006-10-31 06:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not. If all of a sudden he has changed his attitude, must have a reason for it. Would you like to spend your life with someone who treats you like that? Of course you're insecure. He's making you feel like this.
2006-10-31 06:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know one can play another for a year. TRUST ME. He might just be busy.
2006-10-31 06:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Joey J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is playing u too. if a guy has feelings he would call not maybe every day (well, mostly every day) but at least in a day. at least all of mine did. i had plenty
2006-10-31 06:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt unpredictability the spice of life...heres a switch...why dont YOU do something unpredictable and see what happens.
2006-10-31 06:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don go with him
2006-10-31 06:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by pres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very well could be. do you love him?
2006-10-31 06:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by xaangelinazx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋