2006-10-30 21:57:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.There isn't a sure-fire way to mend a broken heart but there are definitely things you can to do to make it feel a bit lighter and ready for new love. First, allow yourself to feel what you need to and take all the time in the world to get over the person. For some people it may only take a few weeks to move on and others years. However long it takes, be okay with that. You can't live your life in the past, waiting for a second chance to do things differently. Doing so is only taking you away from experiencing things that could be better. Don't be scared to give love another try.So, you've found out that Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.Best Wishes
2006-10-30 23:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by rebelicious_angel228 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, i'm a guy very almost seventy 4 and extremely fortunately married. My first sweetheart replaced right into a woman I knew while i replaced into approximately 14. Her mom and dad divorced and he or she replaced into moved away so as that the dating on no account had any style of determination. I had different romances yet that they had endings. My first marriage had an ending notwithstanding if it replaced into no longer friendly. finally I met my sweetheart and we've been married now for 25 years. regardless of the passage of many years, my first romance on no account had a decision. I discovered that the female I have been so related to as a teenager had died some years in the past. I nevertheless have fond memories of her. while a dating happens in actuality, it has a initiating it runs its course and the two ends or maintains as a marriage. while a dating is in delusion (as young babies oftentimes do) or ends without notice with out determination then it may tend to hang-out a individual indefinitely. delusion is often extra advantageous than actuality, and harder to recover from.
2016-10-21 01:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by itani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Think of all the wonderful things about her and the good times you had, be thankful for them and set them aside as a sweet memory. You weren't stupid when you chose her. You were just growing. The glow in your eyes from the memories will attract your next lover.
2006-10-30 22:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermm..
your question is not very clear..
but ill say..
1. get a new girlfriend...
2. STOP seeing her...
3. bury all the stuffs she gave you or anything related to her...(that's what i do too)
4. sit down and think really carefully... what's so great about her?
5. always thinks that there are many many trees in the forest...(honestly, i don't really like this phrase about the trees in the forest but......)
6. take my advice..
7. you know you can....
but do not get a GF that u do not like... just incase you are playing with her and she ends up thinking you are serious and falling deep in love with her.. and when you wanna break with her.. you'll hurt her deep.... REALLY REALLY DEEP..
2006-10-30 22:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by lemonieHm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u wana 4get ur lover??? i guess the thing is u r not able to 4get or dont want to 4get !!? may b her impact is too strong on ur life that now u r not able to live single moment without her... if u really wana 4get then juz dont think about ne moment u spent 2gether,,,,try to find ur happiness in other things,meet people,,,hv fun wid frndz... juz try to divert ur mind from her.. u will automaticallly find urself busy or changed.
2006-10-30 22:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of all the nasty things that happend with her learn to hate her and be thankful youve had a lucky escape..then move on to another girl
2006-10-30 22:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.change ur number
2.give her all the things she sent you
3. forgive urself
5.move on
7pray and have faith
9.time is the best healer
10.date a girl more than ur ex
heheheh....GOODLUCK
2006-10-30 22:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to do anything......
just accept the feelings as they come....
TIME IS THE BEST HEALER
2006-10-30 21:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Indu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By replacing her with someone hotter.>
2006-10-30 22:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new one!
denial isnt just a river in eygypt you know!
2006-10-30 21:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋