i fell in love w/ a guy. he's in sydney right now working. we communicte thru cellphone but lately he's not keeping in touch regularly anymore. i find myself depressed. maybe dis is the reason. i feel like i dont have energy to work. it's also hard to eat. i used to eat a lot, more than two platefuls each meal but these days, often one is enough. i cant keep myself from thinking how he is, and when i contact him and he don't reply at once, i feel like i wanna cry. i cant do anything! what should i do??? anyone exprnced dis b4?
2006-10-30 21:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by rina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok,long distance needs both hands to clap real hard to make it work and to keep out any doubts and insecurities. You are feeling insecure now because you are in love and yet, he doesnt seem to appreciate that. My advice, leave him alone. The more you chase men, the more they run and be all egotistical that you want him so much. Leave him alone. When he calls, dont answer..let him know you have you're own life. Its hard i know but to make some men learn, you have to be cruel to be kind.take ti easy, its not worth you feeling sad over a person who might not be sad over you.
2006-10-30 21:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by honeyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been thru this . wht exactly happens is u sometimes get bored of answering back sometimes or u might have a lot of tention or might be some other gurl on the look . Plz no offence . so try not contacting him for a while , a week or two . lets see wht happens and if u really love him just ask him twice , tht does he wnt to carry on the relationship or no . remember no matter who , u have to leave him or her 1 day . not evry 1 is the perfect guy ur lookin for .
2006-10-30 21:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by <(UnSpOkEn)> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not xperienced but wana suggest u sumthing,juz dont make a habbit of him, that wen he leaves or being busy not in contact wid u,u dont hv ur food,bcumes lazy or so.Juz give him time,dont juz give him phone ring or call,,he mite get distracted...so juz stop for a wile goin onto him,giv him aslo some time to miss u & calls U,dont worry,Evrything will b alrite,dont get hyper.If he really likes U,he will definately take out time for u to talk to.but wen he is busy,try to understand him,the comfort zone & trust & understanding shd b there between u two.
best luck!
2006-10-30 22:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very much in the same situation now and it really makes me sad and depress. But I try not to get affected by it by finding other outlet so i will not think about it. And you should do the same thing.
2006-10-30 23:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by AraClaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be just busy. You need to find something to focus on rather than just him. Keep yourself busy.
It could be that he found it expensive to chat on the cell phone can you chat through messenger instead.
2006-10-30 21:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have exprnced dis b4
I could not eat, work and even stand still at a plase.......
Now is the high time to take the big step.
Tell him how you feel......
GOOD LUCK
2006-10-30 21:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by NEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i can understand ur prob i hav not experienced it but i think u shud call him once and make it staright to him and ask him do u love me ????
this is simple
BEST OF LUCK
2006-10-30 21:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Smarty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u should surprise him or something. Or u can call him instead of him calling u
2006-10-30 21:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by tabina644 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him honestly how you feel...
2006-10-30 21:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by S =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋