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go for younger men?, it does not matter what I do I am always attracted to the younger ones only usually about 5 yrs, not to young, I think its because I have commitment issues, and I dont want it, do you have this same problem?

2006-10-30 21:13:58 · 16 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i always go for younger men, i think its because i wasn't single for 4 years, so I'm dating guys like 4 or 5 years younger than me cos that's who I'm attracted to, that's who i was pulling the last time i was on the pull, i dunno am i makin sense??? anyways younger men are more energetic! good for you!

go us! yippee!

2006-10-30 21:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by cheese 3 · 0 0

There is nothing wrong with dating people of different ages, unless you feel there is some underlying problem that you are not addressing.

If you are worried about your behaviour or want to find out more about what makes you repeat it ...
... talk to a humanistic counsellor or therapist

I don't understand the commitment issues - are you saying that younger people less committed? Can you say more about that & what it means for you?

I don't know you so this is just a guess ...

- being attracted to younger men has some positive benfit for you (e.g. it makes you feel younger, or you feel more mature in the relationship etc. etc.); there could be multiple reasons

- whatever the benefit, do you feel that it is a bit of a cheat and that maybe you should feel better about yourself without having to date younger guys? if so, maybe you have issues such as low self-esteem, attachment etc.

- i dated younger women for a time and that was partly exploration (i.e. finding out more) & partly low self-esteem (i.e. not being sure of myself and who i was)

- i really hope this helps, but to really find out more, go see someone - it doesn't mean you need help, do it for personal growth and self-awareness!

good luck
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2006-10-30 21:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by echo c 3 · 0 0

No, my man is years older than me!!!! But don't worry as long as it is legal its all good!!! One of my friends is living with a man 12 years her junior, she has always gone for younger men too, and they are very happy. Commitment is a word used by people who just haven't met someone they want to commit to, it is not a problem or an issue. You go and enjoy yourself!!!!

2006-10-30 21:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

i usually go for younger ladies ---- so if you like younger guys -- have fun

why do you think that is commitment issues that cause you to like younger guys??

a young guy may want a long term relationship as much as an older one maybe even more

2006-10-30 21:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0 0

Hey trouble. i personally have always gone for the an older man. I think I'm the opposite from you. I need someone older and wiser I FEEL to look after me ALTHOUGH this isn't the case its all psychological! I don't know you but maybe you like to be in charge?? hope i made sense

2006-10-30 22:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rubber Belly 1 · 0 0

You appear to think that younger men have more energy and are willing to experiment more.

Let me tell you, Older Men just get better with their extended experience -Honestly.

2006-10-31 00:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No i've always been attracted to older men,but each to their own.Have a nice day :o)

2006-10-30 21:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by twinkle 3 · 0 0

Maybe it is because you are just looking for a good time and not looking to commit just yet, there's nothing wrong with that.

2006-10-30 21:16:01 · answer #8 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 0 0

There is nothing wrong with you.If we were all the same it would be a boring world.If you can pull them go get them & have fun.

2006-10-30 22:33:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0 0

no,i always go 4 older men cos i blv in maturity

2006-10-30 21:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by ebonny 3 · 0 0

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