What can i do when i fall in love to my friend and she doesn't know about it.?

Answer 1

You have to tell her. But you should be carefull on the way you are going to tell her. You should select words. Like "I have never intended things to be this way but when time passes by I have found out that I am really in Love with You. I don't even knew my self that I am In Love. I just realized this lately."

Good Luck!

Answer 2

What do you want friendshipe wich is already, Or taking a chance for more?
With the chance of more ther is the risk of loosing all ?
Are you really in love or infactuwated with her ?
She may be interested to look for litle clues she might be sending if you bont see any or notice those looks then it up in the are but if you don't see anything think about it deeply and seareasly , if you jump for a moment and it's not there you can recover but she may lose respect ffor you and if that happens then it's over if you are true and want to keep her friendship if your wrong then be of all honet and respectfull, You have to have the respect for eachother for this And don't think it's one or the other you should olways try to be friends thats what you already have and friend can at times be long and far between she may be seeing it in you anyway some people can see all Be thoutfull and honest hey your eather gonna have a long time friend or lover I don't know goabout saying anything slowly try to read her with a whew open questions, if you need to no which its going to be then Id keep her as a friend maybe somthing youll see later but if its a have to answer question you may not like it she won't thats not respect and youll lose I may be wrong but hope your ready for the anyswer you get maybe you need to think more about the what ifs Man it can go eatherwaty If you do it right and no feelings are hrt or wall's put up then think youll be ok but remember be very tackfull how you aproch this Don't want you to lose that friend you have and can still admire her with outh being together if she fill betrayed becouse of these thought then there anothre problem treat her like you do she like you already maybe mre maybe not mabe later in mounths even years to come say the wrong thing and thell most likly be no second chance and no friend think good and long before anything GOOD LUCK TO YOU just keep that door open to her if all it is is a friend hey what a wonderfull friend you have

Answer 3

The same thing happened to me at high school...but I was on the recieving end. My best friend in the whole world ( a guy ) decided he had feelings for me and told me about them...I had to tell him that I loved him with all my heart but in a different way and he was ok with that but 12 months later when he had a new g/f...she felt soooo threatened by our relationship that she made him dump me as a friend. Sad but true...he now has 2 kids as do I and I haven't heard from him personally for 10yrs... Unless u r positive that she wants the same kind of relationship as u keep it to yourself if u want to remain friends with her forever. Sometimes things are better off left alone. If u cant leave it alone...I wish u every luck with her xx

Answer 4

Prepare. It wont be long till she/he finds out. Will be difficult at first. Truth is there will be no such thing as "jst friends" for u when that happens. Can it honestly work?? Joke about it first. Watch for a reaction. The instant reaction, then the behaviour a week after. Either way things will get unconfortable at some time. Cross fingures and hope its a passing thing.

Answer 5

have to mostly agree w/'ProJecT' actually, had a similar situation in college, but mine lasted for a year. the sooner u do things the sooner u will have either good news or bad news. and plz do go for the "we r friends, i dont know..." or things like that. If she is interested she will say so, or at least tell u soon enough. if it takes her a long time, she either doesnt want to hurt u by turning u down, or worse, she wasnt to have u as a "reserve"

bottom line: fast and clean

Answer 6

I think you should tell her/him. It was happen with me. I fall in love my friend and I tell him But he not love me like girlfriend
Then we still be friend and everything is fine. We still be best friend till now and I happy with it .

Answer 7

let her know how you feel maybe she feels the same way, that happened with me and my ex she was my bestfriend and I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way, we ended up dating for over 2 years, and just recently we broke up....kinda sucks now because I lost a good friend over the whole thing, just be prepared that if you two start dating you could possibly lose her as a friend, or gain a life long partner

Answer 8

you are going to have to tell her. Dont just say it out of the blue, it may freak her out a bit. give little hints and see if she reciprocates. if not, she may not be willing to take the relationship to the next level. unfortunatly once you recieve 'friend' status, it is hard to break out. if you just say that you have fallen in love with her, it may destroy your relationship

Answer 9

That happened to me...it seriously screwed up my studying for finals that one term cause i was soo anxious to hear her reply to my email asking her out.When she turned me down saying she doesn't date, i was devasted.But yea, i still made it look like it was no big deal and we still good friends.Soo bottom line is just ask her out...

Answer 10

Hi!you know,jus try to let her see it by herself..try to care for her..etc!she'll notice it!or on a walk at night you just tell her all your feelings calmly and frankly!I think she'll agree..if she loves you!