Me and this guy started dating back in Oct of 04' through March of 05'. Its been over a year...
I started dating his bestfriend and roomate in June. Me and my bf have become so close and are talking about marriage...
BUT his friend will not lay off me and give me a break.When me and him broke up he cried for over a year over me and still does sometimes. Since he isnt over me he has to make my relationship a living hell. He has even went as far as calling me a silly *** no-good for nothing hoe on myspace. He is sooo nice to me sometimes and hangs out with me while my bf is in college and then other times he is such a ******** like he is trying to ruin my life...
What do I need to do about this problem. It seems as of lat he has hurt me so much that i cry everyother day because of how mean he is. Its hard to be mean to someone who is your boyfriends bestfriend and also your boyfriends friends friend to. I feel so trapped and alone, like I should just take the beatings...
2006-10-30 20:31:14 · 8 answers · asked by a_smith042 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt say i cheated, where did u get that from?? =/
2006-10-30 20:35:36 · update #1
=you are lucky to have a boyfriend that cares about you and feels responsible for your well being. Let him take care of the problem.
2006-11-02 13:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way you wrote the question I doubt if you are aware enough to know what is real and what is not.
You already made several mistakes and the new one you are playing with has made even more.
I would suggest you forget about marriage at this time. the new BF should have moved out from living with his friend a long time ago. You both should have known it would cause a lot of problems if he stayed there.
Learn to be aware of what is around you.
2006-10-30 20:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can no longer incredibly do plenty yet communicate and ruin it right down to ur ex-boyfriend, permit him know that he's the previous and that the different guy's ur new BF, permit him know that he can no longer administration the persons u circulate out with. U ought to allow him know the genuine deal, ur ex-boyfriend's jealous of ur present day BF, he can no longer stand to work out u with somebody else. So in basic terms permit him know how u sense and what ever got here approximately between u 2 is the previous now.
2016-11-26 20:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by acebedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve this, but you must understand that he hasn't gotten past you. You being around him is not going to help. You need to cut it off completely. You are there within his grasp and he keeps thinking if only she would see that I LOVE her!
Give him NO chance for that thought.
Tell him exactly why you are doing it.
Tell him you will not see him or receive his email or SMS's or answer his calls for some time - give it 12 months (if he's young give it 3 months) and he'll get the message. Make the time longer every time he tries to contact you. Bin his emails and delete his SMS's and don't call back. Do not contact him even if he threatens to commit suicide. If he suicides, he's an idiot and we need to have his genes removed from the gene pool NOW. It is not your fault. It is for the betterment of society.
You do not deserve for him to call you names. You need to find some people who will nurture and care for you. He says he will, but he actually wants to nurture and care for himself. If he really cared about you and your happiness, he'd let you go and he wouldn't call you names.
A good first line ultimatum is that: the first time he tries to contact you, you'll tell everything to your bf.
2006-10-30 20:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you hanging out with him while your bf is away at college? Did it ever occur to you that he may be feeling lead on by your willingness to hang with him? If you know he has feelings for you and you honestly want to be left alone by him, then stay away from him. I think you like the attention and love the fact that there is someone chasing you no matter how much you protest his attention. Leave him completely alone and no more "hanging out" with him. You are sending mixed messages ! You don't have to be, but be the mature one and stop encouraging his antics. Good luck.
2006-10-30 20:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the help of you present boy friend. If the problem becomes unmanageable by both of you, and your ex continues to cause nuisance to you, you may perhaps lodge a complaint with the authorities.
2006-10-30 20:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex-boyfriend problems?!
Too many, girl!!
Check back on my past answers/questions-and they are all just on one!
Sistahs rule!
2006-10-30 20:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Messy messy messy situation...shouldnt have dated his friend, and now you want to marry the guy you cheated on?
2006-10-30 20:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by digdoggy299 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋