am in a relationship for five good years and this guy have not done anything for me not given a gifts or get this money to buy whatever you wants buy. and he is working alright. sometimes, if i asked him something he pretend as if he has forgotten.
Am further with him because i don't know what will happen if i get married to him.
i remember i asked him something and he told me he don't want to suffer but for me my parents are here with me, infact i was hurt when he said that but i did not react back and i kept quiet.
but in this world nobody would ever wants to suffer, am i right?
2006-10-30 20:16:55 · 17 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It looks like he is no longer interested in you. Call it a day.
2006-10-30 20:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gonna be like everyone else and just make it seem like your the victim to get browny points:
If you've been with this guy for 5 years with this problem going on since the beginning, your clearly either adding to the problem, or your apart of the problem, or both. Either you help provoke his behavior by allowing it and making him think it's okay, or you like misery and your actually happy he is this way and enjoy complaining about it. I say this because you would have clearly put a stop to this long ago if you really wanted to confront this problem an solve it. It doesn't take 5 years to do that.
2006-10-31 04:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it this guy is not your guy. You have been with him for 5 years which is a long time. No gifts If he had feelings for you he surely would have come up and given a gift no matter how small but a gift. In 5 years you have not realized anything about this guy. You probably are intimate with him which I say is a very big mistake. A girl must not give up her virtue easily. Maybe this man enjoys the intimacy and says to heck with every thing else. It is your call and I recommend that you plan to walk out on this guy
2006-10-31 04:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Darling ..... turn around and R U N the other way just as fast and as far as you can. Marriage to that dude would be pure H E double hockey sticks. You would be setting yourself up to end up in the hospital as an abuse victim or in divorce court in short order. He is a player and not husband, father, or family material.
2006-10-31 04:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by terrya1750 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stay with this jerk you will ALWAYS get the short end of the stick! He's cheap and self centered and does not really care about you! If that's what you want then have at it, if not dump his cheap butt and find a real caring kind of guy!!!!
2006-10-31 04:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is complacent. the fact that you let this get on this far without laying down the line shows that you are also. if your not happy with the way things are then get out because it does not look like anything is going to change. it doesn't even look like he is going to ever ask you to marry him.
2006-10-31 04:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's about giving you gifts or money matters.. i think it's about how he makes you feel.. he should make you happy.. my BF and I, we don't give each other expensive stuff.. but he makes me happy.. I gave him a pencil, told him to think about me when he studies.. he gave me a hug.. and said it was a beautiful present.. it doesn't take a gift to keep your relationship alive.. so it's all up to you.
if you're not happy with him.. then find someone who you'll be happy with..
2006-10-31 04:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds like you could find somebody to treat you better, although gifts and money don't necessarily give happiness how does he treat you? does he do things for you even if they are small? does he compliment you? open doors for you?
2006-10-31 04:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by digdoggy299 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions.....
Do you love him?
Does he love you?
in my opinion .... no one ever wants to suffer ,its in human nature to avoid this as much as possible, but that sounds like a dead relationship if i were you i would have of droped him ages ago but since im not,.... Good luck to you
2006-10-31 04:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read ,, check and edit ,, re read ,, and re edit (if necessary) what you put down ,, Your question is so blotched with errors that it's hard to tell what you are trying to say ,,,,
2006-10-31 04:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋