What do you guys usually do whenv you really start to fall for a girl? As in how do you act and what do you do? Just wondering if guys do similar things. =P
2006-10-30 19:50:29 · 3 answers · asked by a_smith042 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must say, many guys don't know. Emotionally we are generally very dumb. Girls around us tend to know before we do cos we just blab on about what goes on in our heads, and if what goes on in our heads is this really hot chick at work or this other class or whatever, it all comes out if you give us a bit of talking time.
As we get better at relating and grow more frontal lobe, us guys get a little better at knowing when we are about to fall for a girl - or knowing that we have fallen for a girl.
Some guys (teenage/twenties) will be hard to read cos many of us go through some sort of "invulnerability" stage - we want to be a rock, an island fortress ... and we lock up the emotions so nobody can read us. Often in this stage we dislike emotions and reject that we even have them. We can feel that they are weaknesses or illogical or whatever (instead of the additional sensation/information source that they so clearly can be).
Apart from that (which girls tend not to do, as far as I am aware) guys do much the same thing as immature girls do.
We're wanting to talk to the girl, but we're afraid of being rejected. Some guys will just tough it out and step up and chat the girl up. Some guys will cringe in a corner and watch forever and then get all hurt when she goes off with the guy who's chatted her up :)
2006-10-30 20:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i myself came into a situation like this recently.. basically i spend most of my time on a half baked plot to get the girl to notice me.. making all the safe judgements i can. Like, does she have a boyfriend already, is she my best friend's ex.. things like that... then i'd try to win her over a tad bit more in conversation, while trying not to seem to forward, studder on my words, or seem too much like an ****... that's the style i got..
2006-10-30 19:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by overburden_spaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell her and try to show her. Set up a romantic evening.
2006-10-30 19:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋