Hit it off huge. Talked all the time, went out all the time, etc. 2 mos. into it, she starts to shy away, but it seemed like we were getting closer. I wouldn't even ask opinions on this, but we are able to talk pretty openly now (dating 6 mos.) and she told me she has always been like this, that she always shies away from the people she really starts to care for. She is a very honest person, so I don't really have any reason to doubt her. She seems torn now and said as much just tonight. We have told each other many times that we love each other. I believe her and know I mean it. So, is she just trying to let me down easy (her heart wants me, her head doesn't or vice versa) or can she really be telling me the truth, that she loves me but doesn't know if I'm what she wants? I am so confused. It's like she loves me so much she wants to end our relationship, or that's what it seems like.
2006-10-30 19:43:27 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to get therapy.
Really, I'm not joking here, she's got trust issues and probably with her own self.
It has nothing to do with you.
2006-10-30 19:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Vette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like she's scared of something that will undoubtedly happen, whether in the near or late future--i was very shy and afraid too with my first bf (we've been together for 2+ yrs now & i'm very happy). is this relationship her first? do you know what she thinks abt her past (eg. her parents' relationship or some other relationship that gave her a negative impression). there could be other things bothering her like being too touchy, having sex, etc. she may just want to clarify a lot of unanswered questions though she loves you... it's like suddenly thrown into the deep end of a pool and figuring how to survive...
2006-10-30 20:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"now i cannot recall anywhere in the Bible where it says its wrong to u kno just go out with lots of different ppl before getting married as long as u dont do wrongful acts" You can not recall because there no such passage. Not all grilfriend-boyfriends relationships ends up in wedding. Some people happen to they met the woman or man of their lives and get married. Others start a relationship that ends in a separation; God used those to teach something about themselves that they need to work out before getting to marriage someone.
2016-05-22 15:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loving you so much as to leave you sounds logical in a clinical syndrome or psychological disorder or in philosophy literature. this however is real life with a normal girl you are talking where she either loves you or she doesnt. ask her clearly what she wants and whats keeping her before it messes up further. earlier the better.
2006-10-30 19:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she wants to end the relationship, but it sounds like she has a fear of commitment.
2006-10-30 19:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly she's afraid of commitment, maybe she's been hurt in the past by other bf's..best bet is to talk to her and ask her how she really feels and if she's afraid to take it further
2006-10-30 19:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by digdoggy299 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
things are to serious for her she wants to take things slowly if you push things to go to fast she will back away and you might loose her even though she will still love you
2006-10-30 19:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she have commitment problems or she is cheating on you... think with a clear mind k... good luck!!
2006-10-30 19:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not going to last much longer. take a hint. shes doin someone else behind your back. ditch her before she ditches you.
2006-10-30 19:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
May b she is married...
2006-10-30 20:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋