My babys father do not use condoms when we have sex, but he still carrys them in his wallet. Is he cheating on me? I asked him about it but he says that they are just in case.... In case what????
2006-10-30 19:29:08 · 24 answers · asked by kris_robinson_7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um we are suppose to be getting married in like 2 years so i dont' know what to do
2006-10-30 19:41:08 · update #1
It is also a consideration for you too. To drive home your point, you may perhaps tell him, you too will carry them in your purse, just in case .....
2006-10-30 19:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just in case? LMFAO damn thats one bold statement. He could have at least tried to lie and say something like "Oh...is that still there?" i mean common if both of you are having unprotected sex, whats the point to carrying condomes? Sorry hun, hes probably just looking to cheat or is already cheating.
2006-10-31 03:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In case there is a mistake!!! lol
You don't have to mind if he carries a condom or not, atleast he is protecting himself from others. And it shows that he trusts you since he doesn't use it with you.
Just make a mark on it and when next you check and the mark is no more there, know that he has used the former and thats another one, then u'll know he has. . .
2006-10-31 03:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by genipabu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are actually a couple of reasons...one being his big ego. Just thinking that he might actually have a soap moment...could actually make him feel secure in his disillusion freedom he so needs to keep in check with him and his Buddy's...or he is on the hunt for that fling before marriage... The grass is always greener kinda thing.
I would tell him if you use or ever feel the need to bust one of the condoms out i sure the hell better be included..if not i will take that you are on a search for your ego. all for 1 or bye bye..Tell him its OK just let you know so you can choose to be involved..That's trust.
sometimes that kills the thrill for them...
if not he will never change ..Always will need to hunt for his ego...
run forest run
2006-10-31 03:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Angelone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that means, that if the opportunity comes they will be prepared for it, so the trick word here is "if and opportunity". a person who is in a committed relationship should only have the condoms in their night stand drawers, where they should be accessible only when they are having sex with their committed partner, got the picture,,
2006-10-31 03:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy- just in case he wants to have sex . with some one . but wants no more baby's , yes he could be cheating ,
2006-10-31 03:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just in case the opportunity comes up to do a cheap hooker in an alley or something.
2006-10-31 03:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not married to him yet-and he is carrying condoms around when your with him.so, he is definetely cheating on u...
2006-10-31 03:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we males carry them in our wallets just incase of need with our partners, I know I do!!!
Mitch
2006-10-31 03:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is cheating maybe he is not but you know your man best so judge that or maybe its just a habit which most men have.
2006-10-31 03:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋