It would take days for anyone to find me, probably until people could smell rotting flesh when they walked past my room, and even then it would be a while before anyone thought it was worth looking into any more than just that the hall smells kind of funny. Sure I wouldn't be showing up to class, but no one would think anything of it - people miss class all the time because they're sick or stuff or just don't feel like going. And I've managed to isolate myself so completely that no one would think anything of it if they didn't see me for days. Is that bad?
2006-10-30 18:26:30 · 19 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can't just go out and make friends because I can't talk to people.
2006-10-30 18:32:28 · update #1
Exactly three hours, any time, any day. Mom would wonder why I wasn't down for dinner, Dad would say I probably had homework, holler up for me to come down three times, knock on the door, and decide I wasn't in. After dinner, he'd stick his nose through to tell me it was time to wash dishes, get angry that I didn't say anything, go downstairs to make sure my car was there, and call my sister to see if she'd taken me over to do some housework or something.
My sister would then say "Oh, that reminds me..." come over, knock on the door, peer in, and realize I was dead.
Dad would wonder downstairs aimlessly, muttering "He could have waited until after the dishes were done..." before calling a neighborhood kid to come mow the lawn tomorrow. Then he'd have mom call the police to take away the body.
My sister would say "Darn! now who's going to fertilize my yard?" and after much discussion it would be decided that I could be cremated, and spread over her back lawn to do one of the jobs I'd left undone in life.
2006-10-30 19:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are on a very wrong side of your life sam,
the sentences above says that nobody cares you whether you live or die is a sort of feeling that you have in your mind...(i guess)
just dig into your heart and touch your senses and say is that the entire world is not bothering you or it's just one or two...
nobody lives their life for one or two... it all happens and how you still direct yourself is important....
first of all do you like yourself ?
if the answer is no then how can you expect others to love you when your own self doesn;t likes the way you behave,,,
time to change and re-think sam...
just live the life you want and try to freak out with as many as possible the proble comes only if you have few friends to talk over rather if you have many and keep adding you won;t fee like this any more..
Take the first step in faith.
You don't have to see the whole staircase,
just take the first step.
Good Luck
2006-10-30 18:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though there were some great answers above, it still never ceases to amaze me at how many uncaring people there are in the world. No wonder you feel the way you do. PLEASE, whatever you do, don't give up. I know it's hard to believe, but life CAN be fun again. I've been there, so I know. Isn't there anyone you can talk to about how serious it is? Everyone has someone they can confide in. Decide who yours is and call them, write them, anything. If you don't have anyone, there are thousands out there who care about you who don't even know you, I know I do. Please do something and write a response to this, please.....let me know you're going to take some action. God be with you.
2006-10-30 20:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by aguila_monster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if you feel that you cant go out and make friends then you need to get yourself either a phone friend or a internet friend n keep in contact with them on a regular basis and let them know whats going on. you dont ever have to keep intouch with them in person and at least this way if anything goes wrong as what you both have in plans IE: if u dont hear from one another for more than so many days then to contact someone close that you both have exchanged contact details with and or the police or the school and explane things to them n why. u can keep intouch with me shell_butt2000@yahoo.com
2006-10-30 18:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by michelle g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 am
2006-10-30 18:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by jon_8ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u want to know, you want to kill your self. what a selfish person you are. think it this way " so many people who want to live longer with the person they love, but they can't because of they sick or something like that". but u don' t even appreciate your life. how about after u kill your self God doesn't let u die, but u live w/ a disability, no matter u try 10000X u still cannot die, it will be how suffer is that? and u getting more....more.....more.....crazy and miserable, so why don't u forget your problem and live like the way it supposed to be, enjoy and appreciate life, help somebody who need your help. make your life valueable ok..... But if u still pick your way to kill your self, you are just a selfish person which is too much thinking only for your self. if u hate human, try something else to take care of. like animal or plant or .....i don't know.....just try to learn something ok. good luck... girl...........
2006-10-30 18:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by wayang person china one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be years before someone finds me....especially if I went for walk....they have been finding bodies out here that have been missing for years....the last one was bits and pieces.....luckily..... he was big enough to feed the animals sufficiently...of course he was only missing for 3 months....and hundreds were looking for a couple weeks.
But if you're that worried..just im me everyday and if I don't here from you...I'll call the cops within hours.
2006-10-30 18:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an internet cafe to study in. You won't look like a loser if you go by yourself and you will meet people. I know how you feel. I'm really sorry. It sucks. Hopefully we will both get through this.
2006-10-30 18:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it would be at 6am when I am supposed to be doing my rounds, but enough about me....lets focus on you. You may think no one would notice but, Im sure someone would. I think you need to get out and quit isolating yourself. It might be scary at first and hard but just be your true self and everything will work out.
2006-10-30 20:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by HEATHER H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you talk to and how often and what your living situation is. I guess if you are dead there really isn't much to worry about. The person who finds you would feel worse off than you.
2006-10-30 18:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by scotttorrez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋