sometimes when i go out to the store,mall or a restraunt guys look at my body and i feel realy weird (list of things they look at that worries me)
.my butt
.my brest
.and my figure
im also mixed im 75%portarican. my dad and mom are worried about the boys
im to young to go through this im only 12
the guys that look at me are like
12-13-14-15-16 or older not to old but i grew way to fast i have strech marks almost every were Girls or boys please tell me how to deal with the guys that look at me like im hot way i need good advise all im asking for is how to deal cause they the boys dont know im 12 and mistake me for 13 -14-or 15 mostly 15,plus i dont act like a lil kid cause all my friends are older than me so im more mature. So can you help a lil 12 year old please and im not joking i am 12 i say that cause i dont think you'll take me seriously do to my age. if u have any qestions to ask me put it down with your advise...THOSE WH O CAN GIVE ME ADVISE
THANK U SO MUCH
BUH-B
2006-10-30 17:51:49 · 10 answers · asked by ur not so average white gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this is a difficult time for you. I have a 10 year old that I just bought a bra for, because she is starting to develop early, as well. How to deal..... I am not sure what to tell you. If you act older and hang out with an older crowd, people will mistake you for being older. Is it possible to find friends closer to your age? Or maybe you are hanging out at the wrong places. The one piece of advice I do have for you, and trust me, it is good advice, is this. Do not, whatever you do, do not let anyone make you think that is the type of attention you want. You do not want to end up pregnant as a teenager. Finish school and go to college. Live life before you have to dedicate it to your child!! Good luck, and I truly hope someone gives you some advice you can use! God bless.
2006-10-30 17:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...just say " I'm 12" .....if they continue.....run and call the cops....on a side note, don't be so 'sexy' as to attract these people, - you might be 12 and wonderfully gifted, but you are 12!!! be a girl ---for about 7 more years.....then think about boys ....in the mean time....if guys are realy hassling you, and you really want to break out, talk with your parents- trust me.....get free of the people that want to judge you by your:
Breast,butt. whatever......you are 12......these things should not be on your plate.
2006-10-30 18:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is not true you are 11 i know u megan im the one with the guy lookin at me problem and you are not even spanish im 75%portarican megan you are all american megan im only part american on my mom's side the spanish came from my dad U know me we've known each other since we were5 and 4 ill call u later bye
2006-10-30 18:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no control over how people look at you, unless you dress to draw attention, tight lowriders, crop tops etc will get you looks all the time. Understand this. If you don't feel ready to deal on that level, don't be on that level. Even if you dress more conservatively, they will look if youre pretty, so I guess you must be. Good luck...talk to your Mom about it.
2006-10-30 17:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, boys and men will always look at women. you just have to learn to ignore it. do you dress too sexy for your age, if so, you should dress more age appropriate and maybe some of these guys won't look at you so much. if you do dress age appropriate then there is nothing you can do except learn to ignore it. it's all part of being an attractive woman.
2006-10-30 17:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by ca belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eew. what's a portarican? um...yeah sucks for you. uh...make the best of it. most girls want that kind of attention. which sounds really stupid but it's true. like at my school the girls are all like that and they TRY to get guys to look at them like that. so yeah i don't give good advice but hope that helps.
2006-10-30 17:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say in basic terms be your self and don't subject approximately how boys view you.you haven't any longer any reason to be embarrassed approximately your physique,GOD gave it to you for a reason,in basic terms time would be waiting to reply to why.do in basic terms your maximum suitable to be a stable individual and a user-friendly one and don't do something to wreck your self or your mothers and fathers feeling.additionally communicate on your mothers and fathers with reference to the type you sense,they'll understand and assist you.
2016-10-03 03:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about the guys who are flirting with you? I would just take it as a compliment and move on. Congratulatations on looking great!
2006-10-30 17:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore their looks, you are far too young to have a relationship with a guy, wait 4 or 5 years...for dating not sex. you know who you are, don't worry about it.
2006-10-30 17:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not that big of a deal i can understand how u would feel uncomfortable but sooner or later wen u want a bf i think u will find it to b in ur advantage
2006-10-30 17:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋