My best friends brother (19) is my crush! I am 17. During the Summer we hung out with him sometimes, but now we dont. What should I say to get her to invite him with us...
or what could I do to get him to ask us to come with him!?!?
2006-10-30 17:50:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget that dude or ull lose your best frnd for his sake and if u lose her u will lose him too.....so just forget him and catch someone else.
2006-10-30 17:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by greatbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can tell you right now if you don't want to loose your best friend i am going to saythis only once froget about it find your own man do not go out with her brother it only leads into heart break and the loss of a really great friend but first talk to your friend and find out what she think about the whole brother crush situation and take it from there but remember friends will be there for a life time guys come and go
2006-10-30 17:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that you might not want to hear this. But if you value your friendship with your best friend, then you want to be careful how you handle this situation. She's likely to feel betrayed if you start using her to get to her brother. I've done it myself, and it never ends out right. If you REALLY do like this kid, then admit it to your best friend and see where it goes from there. She's liable to help you a lot if you're honest with her (that's how I ended up with my current boyfriend. I told his sister, who was a friend of mine, that I liked him, and she helped get us together). After that, you need to be sure you're able to have a nice healthy balance between the two relationships. Just tell her the truth, that you like her brother!
2006-10-30 17:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're already taken, and so is he. tell your self which you recognize you would be unable to have him, and then in basic terms attempt to be acquaintances with him. and that i accept as true with the different individual- dangle out along with your boyfriend greater. :) hannah
2016-10-03 03:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by lyon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Kate, forget the brother, you will surely lose your girlfriend, don't use her in that way, if he was interested he would go after you, but since he is not forget him...
2006-10-30 17:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look dear........
no matter he is ur frends bro......
u shud be straightforward and tell ur frend abt it.being ur best frend i m damn sure she will understand ur feelings.it is da only way.then she can call him 2 a movie ....u can also njoy in da movie with him.as ur frendshp will get intense tell him abt ur feelings. i hope it works. best wishes 2 kate-love
2006-10-30 17:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋