I don't think I'm selfish but when I'm going out with someone and I find out she doesn't like doing that i get turned off. is this normal?
2006-10-30 17:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by JIVE TURKEY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's completely normal is that is something that you feel is important enough. I know plenty of women who are turned off by guys who won't perform oral sex. At first it may not be a big deal, going without for a while never killed anyone, but after a while your thoughts may turn to finding someone who will satisfy your needs.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to date someone who is sexually compatible with you.
2006-10-30 17:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Life is short, if you enjoy O.S you should find a partner that does that. You want to have someone who wants to please you right? Go out and get her. Thats what dating is all about.
2006-10-31 01:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal at all, and is in fact sick. You don't think you're selfish, but you're a selfish, unprincipled pig.
You don't want a woman; you want a whore.
However, seek out women who will do it, go ahead. Sign up at a dating agency and list your requirement. Then maybe you'll find a great match and you can wallow in your trough together, while leaving decent women alone.
You make me sick.
2006-10-31 01:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, there is more to a woman than Oral Sex. You really have to think about the bigger picture. There is more to a woman like family values, personality, looks, etc. Personally, I don't even think women should give O.S. to a man, I think it is gross and degrading to them.
If that is all you think about in a women, I think you are really shallow. Shame on you.
2006-10-31 01:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pool Player 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think you should learn to accept the fact that not all women are the same.some like being wild and some are really gentle. i think you are being very picky about the type of woman you want in bed with you.
2006-10-31 01:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by chandni 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO I WOULD THINK NOT ...YOUR OUT LOOKING FOR A BJ ....GO GET A HOOKER..... THE MONEY YOU SPENT ON A DATE TO FIND OUT YOUR NOT GETTING ONE. COULD BE A DOWN PAYMENT ON THAT HOOKER ..... IT'S YOUR JOHNSON THOUGH ..... MAYBE IT WOULD GET LOST IN THE BUSHES...... IF YOU WENT THE OTHER WAY ...ALSO KISSING AFTERWARDS COULD BE A PROBLEM . THERE MAY BE MORE THAN JUST YOURS.....
2006-10-31 01:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the guy gives her O.S. too...
2006-10-31 01:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
os? yeah i won't have a girlfriend who is too good to perform os on me.. there are only 2 uses for a woman.. and if she deosn't do os... that leaves only one...lol
2006-10-31 01:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by terryshawn1975 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you don't want to date anyone, you just want to fullfill your own pleasures, is this normal? of course, but its called being sexually active, nothing to do with dating
2006-10-31 01:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That just shows us where your priorities lie- more about getting than giving, and more about physical satisfaction rather than mental, emotional, or spiritual.
2006-10-31 01:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋