ok..so my friend will take me to this girl's dorm next week..and i dont know her and vice versa...she wants a guy in her life too..how should i approach her and stuff to make her fall for me ?
2006-10-30 17:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by ali_ed2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont make it obvious that you are out to get her. Just act cool and look rather disinterested. If you make it too obvious she wont want you. Start by touching her up before you say you like her. Hold her hand, touch her shoulder, peck on the chick as you leave.
2006-10-30 17:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know if imp suppose to be saying this even though its haraam. ok here’s how. every girl I know like a clean, nice guy who is cool. act sweet yet bad, but don’t touch her or anything. be kind of quiet but not too quiet, so that you can have a lil mystery behind you. DO NOT I repeat DO NOT comment her too much. only say something sweet once or twice so that she will think of that the whole night and she will miss you more. don’t talk to much, don’t try too hard chill back and relax. why not even act your self. how to dress. just a suggestion ok a tee shirt with a shirt on top but don't button up the shirt. and some jeans I guess. dark blue jeans. wear a sparkly watch or something.
or your other choice is to act charming with jokes and be very lively person and wear just a shirt with some cool words on it and jeans. this time u gotta think of what to say.yeah bring her flowerws this time. think in your mind she is a person whom you have know for ever.ok peace hope it all works out.
2006-10-31 02:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by servant of AR-RAHIM mostMERCIFUL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds creepy lol
so you want to be someone your not, do what you can for this chic to fall for you?
try just being yourself, don't be shy or nervouse, just think you're meeting a friend of a buddies, great, the more friends in your life, the better! and go from there. if you think she's cute, and if she thinks your cute, nature will play its course. or if you think she's cute, get your buddy to put a good word in for you - about how smart and funny you are, and how you can't seem to find a decent girl (even if you've never had a gf, white lies don't hurt, you can always tell her after you thought she was cute and wanted to impress her)
2006-10-31 01:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah skip the chocolates but not the flowers dude.
nd be bold offer a dinner nd went on a long drive.This is the best way to know each other. Then decided, not so early.
2006-10-31 01:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Syed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing your life on being involved with a significant other. Just be casual and treat her like you want to get to know her as a friend. If you're both friendly, then see where casual flirting goings. But stop focusing your life on if you have a significant other or not. If you are not happy with yourself, you'll never be happy with someone else. And if you're constantly looking for someone else to make you happy, then you're obviously not happy with yourself.
2006-10-31 01:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know her but you want her to fall for you?? Usually a relationship takes time. Do something nice to introduce yourself to her. Like take her some flowers, to start off with. And take her out for dinner, it doesn't have to be expensive. Just remember to treat her like a lady.
2006-10-31 01:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would skip the flowers and chocolate on a blind meeting. That's cheesy. Just be well-dressed and groomed. Make her laugh if that's what you do. Show her your personality. Hopefully she will like it. Hopefully you will like her. Don't place all your hope in this girl. Just have fun. Good luck.
2006-10-31 01:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and try to make her laugh. Girls love a guy you is themselfs and try to make a girl laugh. Talk about her and what's she's into. Good luck , hopes this helps.
2006-10-31 01:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself.
show real interest in her if you are interested in her. (i.e. asking questions about her likes/dislikes, find a common ground, ask about family or siblings, goals, interests, hobbies. stay away from politics or religion. that might be third date topic)
dont try to get in her pants right away.
ummm....kiss her on-top of her head when you part and CALL her. she wont expect the kiss on-top of her head and will think its sweet. well, i did when my husband did all of that.
2006-10-31 01:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jessy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bring like a flower or chocolate and wen u give it to her be like my friend said that u were gonna be hot but i never knew this hot. and just start talkin to her
2006-10-31 01:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋