Does it really work out when people date at work? I never dated a chick at any of my jobs, so what are the pros and cons of that? I know this girl likes me cause she just keep giving me this look. I dont get to speak to her often cause she works up front and im in the back, but when we do speak the conversation is decent. I know she already turned down a couple of other guys who work at our job, so how do i know if she wants ME to get at her? I dont think she has a man but im not sure. Should i just cut to the chase and ask her out, or what???? Or should i take a laid back appoach and exchange numbers and try to get to know eachother to see how much we have in common. Im really lost! I dont wanna blow this shes just how i like em too a thick redbone. What should i do?
2006-10-30 17:39:52 · 2 answers · asked by I need mine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either ask her out somewhere or get her number. Either way works. You should be able to sense whether you have a good shot of getting her number (and her actually going through with the date with you) if you talk to her. If you have chemistry or she seems interested, you should know with some certainty. (or you will with more practice)
Unless you act quickly, the "window" of time for you to get her will fade unless you can somehow keep the sexual tension going. I would try get the number within the first few meetings.
2006-10-30 17:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her out for a weekend lunch. But from the way you seem to be objectivizing her, she probably won't go. If you can bring yourself to see her as a person and respect her, you might have a chance. What are your intentions, anyway?
2006-10-30 17:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by KIT J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋