Do guys like girls who talk softly and passively or do they like girls to be loud and aggressive?
2006-10-30 17:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by Sylvia 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
The best voice is the voice that is most appropriate for the situation. There are times when someone should speak softly and times when she should speak loudly. Too much one over the other will make her appear too timid (most guys wants a girl who can take care of herself) or too aggresive (most guys don't want to be bullied or dominated).
But what do you do when you don't know the situation. One shortcut is to play to the fact that a person tend to like what is familiar. So if the guy is speaking loud, speak loud. (don't go into a yelling match though). if soft, speak soft. if fast, speak fast. if slow, speak slow.
2006-10-30 17:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Slugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I know its annoying when a girl talks real soft and passive likes she's a "blonde" or like shes having sex..but i dont thing loud and agressive is better.. I think the best is in-between the two.
2006-10-30 17:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by sj10460 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna depend on the guy and what he likes. My hubby didnt like loud aggressive girls.....Im quiet, but not passive....I CAN be aggressive, but only with him and I wasnt like that till after we were together.
But HIS preference was a quiet girl.
2006-10-30 18:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends on the guy, but I doubt that the relative volume of a female's voice is often an issue. Your voice is fine! Just be yourself!
2006-10-30 17:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you say guys? Men are different too. some guys like fat Chic's some like skinny. some like weirdos. some are gay. some like soft spoken and some like loud aggressive types.
2006-10-30 17:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a very low, slightly husky voice, and I have never had a guy not like the sound of it. I can sell magazines over the phone to guys who can't read - as long as they don't see me! (voice is sexy, young-sounding, and I ain't!)
2006-10-30 17:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont like either. you should go for a healthy medium. Or sign language.
2006-10-30 17:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always d other way round if they sound low they r aggresive inside n vice-versa!got loads of eg.at my place!!
2006-10-30 22:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by sugar plum faery10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋