So do the ones who hate the most...?

Question

need love the most? I think so. But how to get near? All answers treasured. Peace and Light to you..

Darkdeb-What a great idea.

Ginger-hmmmm. You got my wheels grinding. I think you are correct.

vij-you are so wise.

MyPreshus, You are so right. It is so painful.

daysleeper-I can relate to the anger you feel. I grew up in an alcoholic household. It took years for me to get over it.

Answer 1

Yes, they need the most but some who do hate the most are hardcore and their walls are up and they block any light of goodness because of the hate that they feel within themselves. We must continue to show more love regardless.

Shalom

Answer 2

I think so. I have a lot of anger inside of me. It burns all of the time. I was wronged as a child and as a teen. I knew only one place of serenity, and that is the man I am now seeing on the side. My life is very bad right now, and it's in decline. I have no happiness in my life. but when I am with him, I feel like I am the happiest woman on the earth. I can't explain it. Reading all of this makes me want to call him and tell him to meet me somewhere, justso I can get out of this house.

Answer 3

Hate is a disease. It is of the red end of the electromagnetic frequency that we all have and revel in. It is centred in the lower Chakras.

When an animal expresses something you don't like, you don't let them get near you and you don't go near them. When they are not doing what you don't like (hating, being angry) you let them in and forgive them their hate and anger without preaching at them.

When someone has the flu, (a disease) you isolate them or you don't go near them so as not to catch the disease. The same with hate and anger.

When someone is drowning, you don't jump into the water with them so them can drag you down with them. The same with hate and anger. Stand from a distance and throw a line. (a look, a smile, a prayer)

People who have a disease usually lose a lot of energy to their disease (hate, anger). A disease is a block in the enerygy flow from the cosmos or the Universe through the person and into the ground to form a "current". So when the energy of the "hating or angry person" gets blocked, they will try to suck energy off new people all the time finding someone else to "be angry at" or to "hate". They do that by playing off the weakness of the people around them in an attempt to ground themselves through them so as to "fullfill themselves".

So what you can do from a distance, is to visually ground the person to the ground by extending the energy from the base of the spine to the ground. You can do that through the "mind" and visualization. Read Barbara Ann Brennan, a NASA physicist and Psychic in her book "Hands of light"

Keep loving through anger but from a distance...Use Prayer to the ONE...

Cyril Borg, the Cyborg

Answer 4

I've had experience with angry people who seem to hate everything and everyone, and it's usually because (subconsciously) they are angry at and hate themselves. Look at happy people who are kind to others. They are very confortable with who and what they are. The haters usually are not, so they criticize others in order to elevate themselves. Sadly, this doesn't work so they pile it on even thicker in an effort to "overcome" and therefore just keep getting worse.

What works best in my experience is to talk kindly to these people and try to build them up as best you can. You must be sincere, and try to show them another perspective to whatever it is they are ranting about at the moment.

It's not easy and it's a slow (painful) process, but if you stick with it, you'll see progress.

Answer 5

The only way to get near someone who hates or fears you is to be as non threatening to them as possible. Love unconditionally. Make sure your love for them is not bound by what they do, or what they believe but just because they are a creation of God. Don't push your agenda. Set good examples such as kindness, gentleness and true caring for them. Unconditional love is very hard to resist. It is what we all long for in this life. To be loved just for who we are and not what others think we should be.

Answer 6

I think so! It takes a whole lot of love and patience to get thru to these people but it sure is worth it when you do! They will do everything they can to tick you off and make you lash out but you don't do it. You smile at them and still be nice to them saying really nice things which they hate at first but you will gradually break down their wall. A lot of people need this love and we can give it if we are willing!

Answer 7

Its possible, but they are also the ones who don't trust. You really can't have love without trust they go hand in hand. People who don't trust easily are difficult, you just have to have a lot of patience. Just like animals who are afraid, it takes a daily dose of love and patience.

Answer 8

I think so. My strategy, when they can't be avoided is to "kill" them by pretending to hate even more than they do... most will quickly realize that if I sound ridiculous, then they probably do too, & will soften a bit. This allows you to get inside their heads & plant a positive seed....

Answer 9

The love chapter answers this well , 1 Cor. 13

Answer 10

just be a friend and do what friends do. This is a neat place that way cuz you do not really have to deal with a lot of stuff that normally would take more time.