Ok here's my situation... We started goin out a lot and slept together and all and it's been only like a month. I don't even know if I'd consider her my g/f really, it's not like I asked her. But I guess it could've gone without asking considering that we've been hanging out a lot. But I love woman and I wanna be a guy and there's this reallly cute girl... I dunno, I just don't want to get rid of the other girl tho, not just yet anyway, it's nice to have somebody who'll cook for you and be bootty call, I don't want this to go away...my question-would that be cheating really to go home with another girl? I'm young and want to explore my options, compare girls..is that really wrong???
2006-10-30 17:01:20 · 30 answers · asked by jon j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it'd be wrong, in my opinion, if you did this without making sure the first girl was under no illusions as to the status of your relationship. If she seems to think you are exclusive, and you just want to use that to your advantage, then yes that is wrong. Many guys do it, but it's wrong, plain and simple. The right thing to do, for you, is to put it out straight to her. Maybe she will be cool with you two being F buddies.
2006-10-30 17:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is wrong and you are a jerk. You are using this girl because you didn't even tell her what is going on. If you want a booty call girl, ask from the start. Don't lead her on and then cheat with someone else. Shame on you!!! If you want to explore your options, keep you penis in you pants and date these women rather than sleep with t hem, get them thinking you are gf/bf and be honest. Exploring is okay, just as long as you let them know what your intentions are.
By the way, if you do cheat on this girl, I hope you get genital herpes!
2006-10-30 17:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your maturity level is not that high, is it. Just because a chick sleeps with you, doesn't make her your girlfriend. If you just think of her as someone who cooks for you or a booty call, then no, she's not your girlfriend. Considering that she's not aware of this makes her sound stupid, but not your girlfriend. Be a man and tell her where you stand before it's too late. If you even have to ask such a stupid *** question anyway..........then you don't deserve a girlfriend.
2006-10-30 17:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer to your original question is, yes its wrong. because i doubt you'd think its "right" for your girlfriend to cheat on you.
but if you aren't official, and she is aware that you are not exclusive, and she wouldn't be hurt by you seeing other girls, then go ahead. but i doubt thats the case.
if you are wanting to explore your options, dont let it get that serious with one girl. thats just mean. and just my opinion: if you've already spent that much time together, and you still want to explore your options, she's probably not the one.
gooood luck!
2006-10-30 17:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've already made up your mind. Are you on here trying to get justification for something you know is wrong?And "compare girls"? You sound sort or vain so you might be somewhat young still. You should try to get over this "exploration" thing you have going on if you ever want someone to take you seriously. Good luck.
2006-10-30 17:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in my opinion, you don't care for either one of these girls that you are talking about. no offense but i think that you are really just in for the ride. makings of a good player here... the way you are going. if you truly want to meet more people.. meet them as friends... it is the best way to know the different types of girls out there- pulling them into bed is not the best option either. what are you satisfying here- lust or true search 4 love?
2006-10-30 17:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no...not in your universe. You've got it all figured out. It's bootycallorma, ain't it? Why stress? Just keep being your bad self and let the consequences follow. Just don't become immune to penicillin 'cause I'm guessing that there are going to be some health problems along the way. (Please, girls, understand....most of us are not like this....I hope.)
2006-10-30 17:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't really know her why did you have sex with her? What you seem to be asking is "is it okay to **** around?" Yeah sure if you enjoy placing yourself at risk for HIV, STDS and HPV (which by the way is spread by sking to skin contact not bodily fluids so even IF you're wearing a condom you can catch it), as well as pregnancy. You simply need to ask yourself ARE you responsible enough to be able to handle ALL of the consquences of ******* around? Frankly I don't think you are, you're certainly not mature enough.
2006-10-30 17:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her place, if you can....now would that be wrong of her to use you like you are using her....????? Leave her...she sounds like a nice girl, don't use her the way you are...that isn't nice at all....be single and do whatever you want as long as you aren't USING anyone ...
2006-10-30 17:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is, if you wanted to keep playing the field you should have been up front about it from the beginning. In her mind you are building a relationship, when all you want is a booty call. Drop her and do what you want, but don't keep leading her on. Have fun!
2006-10-30 17:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋