I met this girl when she was 19 yo...she is 24 now...we had not talked for a couple years.....we were to get together when my wife left for other reasons....I backed out....we both feel we made a mistake back then.....I am still married...not happy just comfortable......both kids are grown and out of the home.....she wants to meet some where 1/2 way....should I?
We met online.
2006-10-30 16:50:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met this girl when she was 19 yo...she is 24 now....I'm 43....we had not talked for a couple years.....we were to get together when my wife left for other reasons....I backed out....we both feel we made a mistake back then.....I am still married...not happy just comfortable......both kids are grown and out of the home.....she wants to meet some where 1/2 way....should I?
We met online.
2006-10-30 16:51:54 · update #1
shes 24---I'm 43
2006-10-30 16:52:22 · update #2
I hate this edit feature.
2006-10-30 16:52:48 · update #3
It's wrong. At the very least, you need to wait ofr your divorce to be finalized. Also, what do you really think you'd have in common with a girl so much younger than you? It's a big catastrophe waiting to happen. Meet someone closer to your age once your wife is completely out of the picture- and don't do it online.
2006-10-30 17:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you want out of your marriage get divorced first why hurt your wife, you shouldn't even be writing to other females and she is only 24 yrs...that is too young...that age they just play games you should know that by now...I feel so sorry for you wife...you are no good of a husband to do this to your wife...shame on you....
2006-10-30 16:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole situation is wrong. You shouldn't let lust over some young girl ruin your marriage. Marriage is about trust! You are just being a coward by going behind your wife's back doing things like this. I would be ashamed. Be a man and do what's right!
2006-10-30 16:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate. It shouldn't happen. It must not happen. You are still married. She'll make it just fine without you complicating the hell out of her life and you'll still have your family. Sounds good?
2006-10-30 16:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not happy w/ur marriage, go 4 divorce & then give urselves a try
2006-10-30 16:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so wrong.
2006-10-30 20:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt...
2006-10-30 17:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-30 16:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt.
2006-10-30 16:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT....
2006-10-30 16:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋