I just asked this girl-friend of mine to be my girlfriend but she didn't say anything about getting together she stated talking about some deep things in her life and said goodnight! I dont know wha to think any ideas!!!!
2006-10-30 16:29:38 · 17 answers · asked by essio16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry buddy, but it sounds like the answer is 'no'. Try to move on... her loss right?
2006-10-30 16:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it kind of depends on what she was talking to you about I think. She may have started talking about deep things because those things are keeping her from wanting to have a relationship right now. She could be scared to get into a relationship, and since she is your friend originally she might be trying not to ruin that friendship. On the other hand, she might not have known what to say maybe she was happy about it and like I said depending on what the deep things were that she was talking about she could have felt a relief knowing that you wanted to be her boyfriend and trusted you enough to tell you, kind of like a way to get things off her shoulder maybe. It's hard to say, but if I were you, I would asker if she's given any thought to what you asked her or if she saw the two of you as more than friends at all or if she could consider it. Just tell her how you feel, and keep in mind to let her know that you don't want any of it to hurt your friendship. Good Luck.
2006-10-30 16:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by mda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't put your heart there you won't find what you are looking for. However you will sometimes find that what you think and feel isn't the same for the other person. It doesn't mean that they don't care for you, just maybe not in the same way. Keep them as a friend and build from there. Maybe she will see in you what she hasn't before. If you get rude or ignore her then she will she the hurt not the good . Stay true to yourself and Love will find you.
2006-10-30 16:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by freesample1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be scared to answer the question. Often times girls dodge the question and beat around the bush by talking about other **** because they're scared. She is probably either into you too but doesn't wanna risk a friendship for a relationship or she doesn't have feelings and doesn't want to hurt you.
2006-10-30 16:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by anoush1589 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She changed the subject, she is afraid of something or something is holding her back. Encourage her to talk about the deep things in her life and eventually you will realize what that may be.
2006-10-30 16:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mia Anne *6.6.09* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-30 16:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by alire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you pay any attention to what those deep things were? If you want to be her boyfriend that is what you should have been paying attention to.
Those things were important to her and she will eventually find a boy/man who thinks those things are important too, and if you don't...then move on.
2006-10-30 16:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you asked her out on like msn. Mabye you should have tried asking her out in person. You Have to pick the time
2006-10-30 16:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Robins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to think and consider . tell her you enjoy being around her and would really like to get to know her better and take it slow and easy . invite her to dinner . or a coke . and be yourself .
2006-10-30 16:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋