There is this guy who I really like & he has been in my classes in every semester of college.. The first time I saw him, we locked eyes for a few sec. We just made eye contact but never talked to me. This semester, he is in 2 of my classes! & he just stares at me a lot.when I look at him he turns away. I finally had some courage to ask him a Q, he looked surprise. He hasn't talked to me, but he still keeps looking at me. I thought he was shy b/c he doesn't talk to people much. Now my hopes are fading bc he is now asking Qs to this girl who is very pretty & she gets nervous when he talks to her. she even made him laugh! (he rarely smiles)Im sad & confused bc i don't understand why wouldn't he talk to me, he has been in several classes with me. He just stares at me, makes a lot of eye contact, that's it. When he talks to other girls, he doesn't look shy at all. Guys if you like a girl, but you are shy...how would you act around her?? Is he still interested in me?? Thank you :)
2006-10-30 16:28:01 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey girl, some guys find it hard to talk 2 a particular girl!! U just got 2 find way out and talk to this guy coz he may like u & finds it hard to talk. It also happened 2 me with 1 kind of girl in my street, I kind of like know theirs something in her mind but I show her like theirs nothing in mine. He may wants u 2 talk in that situation, so u just got 2 do something he may be your only opportunity!!! Guys somethings do that trust me. BUT, do eye contact necessarilly means something?
2006-10-30 16:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by fine boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are 2 possibilities.
#1: He's just not that into you
#2: He does like you, and he is shy, but maybe he is trying to make you a little bit jealous by talking all easily to the other girls.
Either way, it doesn't matter. You will never know unless you ask. Or unless you slowly ease your way into a more talkative friendship. Risk the potential rejection, it may be worth it.
2006-10-31 00:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by bobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys are just weird. YOU need to make a move, otherwise she may be making hers and you could end up with nothing but the chance to watch them flirt in class! Just ask him if he would like to study with you for one of those classes right before an exam. This worked for me and the nite that I asked him to study, he invited me to a party he was having 2 days later. He got my number and called me and I was excited. (nothing actually came of it because I found out he was an alcoholic and failed all his classes BUT I still got what I wanted by asking him to study and I got to see what type of guy he was for REAL). TRY IT.
2006-10-31 00:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by curiousone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that the other girls he talks to he doesn't care for. the reason he seem shy around you is that he does like you but unsure of your feeling. maybe you need to ease his mind. throw a few sensitive smiles his way. women can say a lot through a smile and a wink. let him feel your interested.it might work. good luck to you, hope everything works out
2006-10-31 00:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard, he isnt shy and thats for sure. it could go either way, he is interested or he isnt, cant really tell from what you said. maybe those girls he talks to, maybe he already knows them from high school or something. maybe he isnt that good at talking to girls thats why he seems so weird when you asked him a question. but if he stares at you a lot, he is interested in you, whether it is for sex or for love, he is somewhat interested. i can tell you the truth because i am a guy in college also. i am not shy but i have hard time starting conversation with girls, but after that i am myself and outgoing. guys do it all the time, even myself, i stare at girls when they not looking, then look away when they catch me looking. when i stare, i think about getting with them, and whether i think about sex or love, it depends on my mood. now i dont stare at chicks booty anymore because i have past that phase in my life in other words, i have matured. if i wanted to talk to her, i look her in the eye, not her booty. i cant guarantee you that he wants to get with you b/c i dont know you. ask yourself, are you attractive? in shape? nice booty? ect.... hope this helps. btw, i suffered from this many times in my life, i had many chances to get with many cute chicks but i just let it slide past me. i want to try and prevent other shy guys from making the same mistake, so you should just go and talk to him. i am very opened up when girls start talking to me, just wish it happened more often.
2006-10-31 00:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nervous some times the words don't come out right or don't at all . This fellow sound a little autistic making it even harder ..Thats why chemical attraction is so important..
2006-10-31 00:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mudd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So a guy won't talk to you, and does talk to someone else... Hmmm why don't you just try to find someone else to date, pretty much anyone else, see if he gets jealous or if he doesn't even notice. If he doesn't notice then he doesn't like you and you should move on.
2006-10-31 00:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by stezus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either thinks your a weirdo or he's interested and just too shy to ask you out. So get off your butt and just ask him!
2006-10-31 00:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy likes a girl they go for it. They do everything when they want.
2006-10-31 00:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by brasilian girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is still intereted
and if I liked a girl, she would know
2006-10-31 00:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by John K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋