I spent the weekend with my ex boyfriend we broke up about 4 months ago, this is the first time since we broke up that we've spent together. So how can i tell he still likes me? Someone please help i still love him and want to get him back.
2006-10-30 16:25:23 · 12 answers · asked by Sara M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uh hell probly call u and tell u staight up that he wants to get back w/ u
2006-10-30 16:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the reason you broke up, and why are you spending a wekend with someone you don't know whether he's commited or not? How did he treat you over the weekend-that might be a clue. When you love someone and want a relationship, you need to discuss the expectations and goals with each other...
2006-10-30 16:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still likes you, he'll be the one calling you, initiating contact, making plans etc. All you have to do is respond. If you're the one initiating everything, then he might just be curious and "feeling things out" but he's conflicted and that's never a good sign.
Act happy, busy and beautiful around him. Be the girl he first fell in love with. Do not pursue him or talk at length about "your relationship" or "what went wrong" etc. since you guys never did that in the beginning either. Just have fun, be yourself, continue seeing him, but only if he initiates it. If he's not pursuing you, he's not still "into" you.
2006-10-30 16:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably misses you and probably wants you back. He spent the weekend with you that speaks volumes. Try to make an effort to spend time with him when you are available. Be friends and try not to make the same mistakes that lead to the brake up. I hope this helps.
2006-10-30 16:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by msladykm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him use you. You can't just jump into bed with him and expect to get him back that way because then its just sex that he's getting. Start actually hanging out and then try to work on the relationship aspect - rather than starting exactly where you left off because that just leads to failure - TRUST ME.
2006-10-30 16:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by curiousone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, you should just ask? You know what you want, why wonder? If you put yourself out there at least you'll know. If it's not reciprocated, then you'll know where he stands. I understand that putting yourself out there, means putting yourself in a volunerable spot, but stop playing games with yourself, and "clear the air".
Life is too short to wonder....
2006-10-30 16:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you spent a weekend with him?! it's you who can answer your own quest.; did he made you feel special, made you feel that he still love's you?! you can find out in everything he do and in every move he takes!!!
2006-10-30 16:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps wanting to spend time with you, that's a pretty good sign..
2006-10-30 16:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by seaofcolour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAS he called you if not then he was having a good roll in the hay move on...miia
2006-10-30 16:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him...Communication is a big part of a relationship and you should be able to ask him that question....
2006-10-30 16:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋