2006-10-30 16:23:06 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Caramel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
update: see the other thing is the guy works a different shift at my job, but now his good friend is trying to ask me out. I dont want the guy I like out and get rejected b/c I still have to see him at work
2006-10-30 16:34:49 · update #1
Very carefully
2006-10-30 16:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" smile and start a conversation"
Number one way to so is to smile. Smile . Smile . Smile . Guys LOVE it when girls smile at them. It gives them the sense of Being wanted. If you have ever seen those cool commercials of girls staring at the guy at the bar, you would see the girl smiling and all of a sudden giving him the " come here finger". After that walking away. What does the guy do??? HE follows her. Ok Ok may be it does not end up that way all the time, but thats the feeling men get. They want to feel wanted or " come here " feeling , and by smiling your gonna get that feeling to him. Try doing it from a distance , and when smiling do not just stare at them the whole time. come and go sometimes ,you know peek at him ONCE and A WHILE. then after you both notice each other , ether of you will know when to go up and talk. From there strike a convo. Talk about who you notices what he does , what you two have in common? what cell phone company you both have and how bad your reception is compared to his phone company. SOmething like that . anything that will get you talking to each other.
hope this helps :) it works !
2006-10-31 00:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by GhostHunter4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask, it all depends on you. you can ask him for coffee to a party it doesn't matter. But if you do ask don't pussyfoot around get straight to the point. guys don't like trying to guess what your saying.
2006-10-31 00:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Emery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but be careful. just like the wrong guy comming to you, you can go to the wrong guy. there are alot of great guys out there that are single just because they have a hard time seeking the girls.
2006-10-31 00:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask. Try to make it a specific thing. If he likes you and can't go he'll ask you to do something else.
2006-10-31 00:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by stezus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not very complicated. Just say "Hey, would you like...?" He will say yes if he likes you and if he says no it's because he doesn't like you. We like it wjen you women take the pressure off and it's good for our ego when you come on to us.
2006-10-31 00:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask. there is no art form to it, besides they think it is cute. last night i asked my husband out on date for the weekend, at frist eh laughed and then he was blushing for the rest of the night. it was cute to see him so giddy.
2006-10-31 00:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you go out -should work
2006-10-31 00:25:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he'd like to go out for a coke or tea . and see where it goes . tell him you'd like to get to know him better .
2006-10-31 00:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by single-rose@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
I get that all the time!
Like "Wanna join me for a coffee?"
Or, "Coming to the party?"
2006-10-31 00:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋