I love my girl friend but am really attracted to pretty women. The media doesnt help, showing pictures of sexy women who seem "easy." Not to mention pornography and all that.
2006-10-30 16:19:04 · 11 answers · asked by vrad fitt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the way i look at it is if you cheat you don't love your girlfriend nearly as much as you think. cheating is lying and you shouldn't lie to those whom you love.
2006-10-30 16:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a man, you will always be attracted to someone, but you also have the power to restrain yourself. You are not a neanderthal. You can control yourself. Who cares about pictures of girls that "seem easy"?
Who really cares? In the end, if you love your girlfriend, you will make the choice every day to be with her only. If you don't, then tell your girlfriend goodbye, let her go, don't cause her pain, she doesn't deserve you hurting her.
2006-10-30 16:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are responsible for your own behavior. If you are tempted to cheat and you want to resist then perhaps you should remove yourself from situations where you are tempted. Watch family programming on television and actively distance yourself from pornography. If you think you have a real problem such as a porn addiction then seek out professional counseling.
2006-10-30 16:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by angry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dude if you are thinking about cheating most people at least think of it once. But there is a way to deal with it. First remember how good your girl friend is to you. Of coarse if you love her you shouldn't even think of porn. And the is a chance that she may help you deal with it just talk to her about it.
2006-10-30 16:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by L.J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that doesn't mean you have to cheat on your girlfriend. You can look but don't have to touch. Some women don't even care if you do look at other women. Everyone is attracted to someone else sometimes, but you don't have to act on it.
2006-10-30 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop them from cheating. you can try the your best to be there for them but if they are immature its not the girlfriends fault. thats his problem. maybe its best you be single. it sounds like you are immature and not sure as to what you want. i don't know how much you think you love your girlfriend. you say you love her but you want others. doesn't work that way. everyone is attracted to the opposite sex but it depends on if you respect your girlfriend and love her. that is the predictor if you will cheat.
2006-10-30 16:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to resist we are all tempted all the time but it doesnt make it right you have to keep conversations to the opposite sex to a minimum you are in control of your mind and body so you cant stop something unless you are determined and you really love your girlfriend
2006-10-30 16:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can stop you from cheating.. but you just need to have a little will power and remember it's ok to look, but just don't touch.
2006-10-30 16:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can stop a man from cheating. The choice is up to you.
2006-10-30 16:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't so just deal with it.
2006-10-30 16:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sacha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋