I met a girl online in July. We've become pretty close since then. She's even talked about going to college in my area (she lives about 75 miles away) to be with me. We've been talking on the phone every night for several hours until about a month ago when her cell phone broke. She hasn't had the money to fix it yet. She hasn't been online since the 18th of this month. I'd like to see her (We've never met in person). I'm considering showing up at her work. She works at Subway. Would this be weird? I don't want her to be creeped out by me showing up. I'm doing it because I miss her and I want to show her that I'm thinking of her. Ladies, how would you feel if you were the girl in this situation. Everyone, should I do it or not? And if so, give me some suggestions.
2006-10-30 16:17:42 · 8 answers · asked by NunYa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time, it's not an oevrnight thing. just slow down. slow down. at the right time...
2006-10-30 16:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds very suspicious... her phone broke AND she "suddenly stopped" going online? Think about it, if she really missed you as much as you missed her, she would have found a way to contact you by now. She is not chilling at work hoping you'll suprise her someday, only to go home and sit around desperately trying to calculate ways to fix both her phone and online connection to get back in touch with you. She met someone else, or something else is suddenly distracting her from her online, phone chatting ways.
If dropping by her work was something she really wanted, she would have found a way to contact you despite the technological mishaps. It sucks to hear, but something else is going on...
2006-10-30 16:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and regardless of if she IS a woman... Sending nude photographs of herself to digital strangers!!! It the two ability she is of undesirable character, or...or...the photographs are no longer actual!!! it extremely is common to be super marvelous sitting at a working laptop or pc - and that i notice your remark approximately how she is unquestionably spreading herself approximately:"very lively on social media". This has each and all of the earmarks of dangling the glittery fly and arranged for the undesirable trout to bite! rather of 'her' taking part in merely you, why do no longer you 'play alongside' and see what unfolds. My wager is, male or woman, it extremely is to get money out of you, or, if woman, the long con: lots soreness at deceiving you using fact she isn't the lady interior the photograph..."i had to guard myself etc i did no longer think of something might come of all this" - yet i've got fallen in love with you, we are soul pals blah blah :it extremely is for marriage and an ecu, or u . s . passport! What do others think of? How previous is she? If she's 18 or 19, then why hasn't she suggested being interior the Israeli military?
2016-11-26 20:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah man, work is work.
You could always just by chance appear in her particular Subway but ask yourself: would she go visit you on the job?
I'm a cynic on the topic of online relationships so you'll just have to gauge it. Only you know
2006-10-30 16:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your first instinct. I would be creeped if you showed up at my job. It's an online friendship. Let it go, it's not real.
2006-10-30 16:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Find a person face to face. Online stuff is garbage and fake.
2006-10-30 16:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by The Count 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord - that is committing romantic suicide. I think she's avoiding you. Find another gal that's interested in you.
2006-10-30 16:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOOL DO YOU WATCH DATELINE?????
2006-10-30 16:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋