Curerntly I am holding the degree of B.A in Arts.My age is 31 years.I am working with a multinational organization as Executive Secretary.I have been engaged to my cousin in Saudia but they are not financially secure.After my marriage I will have to go to Saudia leaving behind my career and everything.
Here I see I need to study further because my fiance is not educated and just matric and if I study further I could get a better job in Saudia and could render my services to hold my home and children.
What do you think should I study further or just leave it to God.I am thinking to do Executive MBA.What shold I prefer either Marriage or my Education.If I study further it would require two more years to get a degeree and then my age will be 34 when I will get married.Is this age good enough to have children.
2006-10-30 16:00:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My fiance is almost 2 years younger than me and he is my real Aunt's (mother side)Daughter's Son.
2006-10-30 16:39:45 · update #1
DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY. I THINK ITS STRANGE TO MARRY COUSIN, BUT IF YOU ARE HAPPY IN SCHOOL, FINISH SCHOOL
2006-10-30 16:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're below 40 you can have children. Get married, go to Saudia, don't have children for a few years (use the oral contraceptive pill if you want to keep this information to yourself and not share it with your husband) and do EMBA by distance learning...there's Preston university that allows you to do this so you can work and study without attending college or losing time. Pray to God to help you and remember the women who study even though they are managing a house, 4 kids, working and living with their in-laws. You should talk to your fiancee about studying after marriage and ask your parents why they found someone less educated than you...Asian men dont' like their wives to be so above educated than them...that in itself could be a problem!
2006-10-30 16:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg you want to marry your first cousin?!? Aren't you worried about the birth defects your children could have because of it? What if one of your children is born when you are say 35 you already have an increased risk of having a down syndrome baby because of your age then it's to your cousin which gives you an even higher risk of birth defects.
I seriously think you should focuss on your education and career and find a husband in the US that has a decent job, so it takes the pressure off you when you go on baby leave and more importantly is not related to you!
2006-10-30 16:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by CZ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theres a golden rule we all abide by in the west .... "Take care of yourself first 'cause nobody ele will" ... I know marriage in the middle east is a whole different process and culture to whay us "westerners" are used to ... but if you have the opportunity to better yourself ... and to maybe meet someone who you truly fall in love with (rather than what I'm taking as an arranged marriage) the you should study further ... make the best You that You can be ... get your independence and the world is your oyster .... Good Luck
2006-10-30 16:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are comparing apples to oranges - it doesnt work that way. Either you want the orang or the apple it's where you heart is. Education compared to the benfits you will get down the line is incomparable, marriage....you got my guess.
I would say, study, get what it takes, there will always be a man for you and if not you wil be financial stable to do whatever you wnat to do.
2006-10-30 16:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should extra your learn. presently its very confusing to get a sturdy activity or actually have a profession for that depend except you have sturdy practise. Are you even beneficial you decide directly to marry somebody who's that obsessive? Going to college is something sturdy and if he'd particularly have you ever reside at homestead and be a homemaker, then it would not appear as if he's the applicable guy for you exceptionally if he's familiar with that going to college is significant to you. while you're even questioning no depend if to get married then which ability you ought to not be getting married. in case you fairly love the guy and are beneficial you decide directly to get married, then carry off on the marriage, bypass to college and as quickly as your executed then you definitely ought to get married. a minimum of that way, interior the even that the marriage doesnt artwork, you have something to fall returned on later. merely because of the fact your getting married does no longer mean you should sell your self form on the flaws which you savour or choose to do. If he fairly enjoyed and cared for then you definitely he ought to be responsive to how significant going to college to get a level is significant no longer in easy terms to you yet merely as the two significant for the the two certainly one of you.
2016-12-09 00:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always get as much education as you can.
2006-10-30 20:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STUDY, GET YOUR DEGREE AND THEN IF U WANT TO MARRY. IS IT YOUR FIRST COUSIN?? JUST CURIOUS
2006-10-30 16:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by sammi girls mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋