We dated about a month, we instant messaged each other almost every day and spoke on the phone a few times, but mostly talked on instant messenger. He moved away last Friday and has emailed me 2 times since then. Am I overreacting? Maybe I should give it time. We live about 4 hours away from one another now, he was here for a month training for the military. So, he didn't live here to begin with. We met while he was going to school and we really hit it off. He doesn't have a cell phone
2006-10-30 15:59:20 · 8 answers · asked by amygirl7362000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably unpacking? He's already reached out to you twice in a week -- that's not so bad.
You are obviously anxious about the four hours between you. Let him settle in for a month, and accept the communications as is for now.
meanwhile, find something more constructive to do so you don't find yourself crazy waiting for the IM to ping.
2006-10-30 16:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't take it personally he's e-mailed u twice in just over a week which i think is pretty good. I'm in a long distance relationship and when my bf is really busy i'll be lucky to get 1 e-mail from him in a week , don't worry I overreacted about it at first too but then later when i had spoken to my bf again i realised i was just being paranoid, I honestly don't think u have anything to worry about. i really hope it works out for you Good luck.
2006-10-30 17:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just moved 4 hours away, I would say two e-mails in a week and a couple days is pretty good. He's prob. still getting settled in, and learning his new routine and schedule where he's stationed (or living) now. I would def. just take a deep breath, relax a little and see what happens...sounds like he could just be busy!
2006-10-30 16:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Matt S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on girl, he's not that into you. If he's serious, he will do whatever he can to keep on contacting you and proceed into deeper relationship. After all both of you were really hit off, so he should have try to keep on hitting off even if he moves away.
2006-10-30 16:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Viz+ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone goes for a long distance relationship so he might be letting off easy. Or he might be genuinely busy and doing lots of school things, so is busy enough to communicate less with you. Talk to him about it and ask him if he's letting go of you.
2006-10-30 16:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. I wouldn't take it personally. I would appreciate his friendship and the opportunity to have met him. if you dont hear from him again just move on.
True friendship is supposed to survive distance and time.
try to meet other guys and hangout with your friends. if you meet other pple it will give you more of a realistic option.
2006-10-30 16:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just forget about him since he lives so far away from you, and it doesn't sound like you both love each other that much. It my boyfriend did that to me, I WOULD actually feel the same way you do....but...I just he figured that he won't be able to see you much anyway so he is probably signaling that he wants your relatoinship with him to just be friends.
hope i helped :D
2006-10-30 16:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD JUST ASK HIM WHAT IS GOING ON, IT MAY BE JUST
THE FACT THAT HE HAS MOVE AND TRYING TO GET THINGS
IN ORDER WHERE HE AT. GIVE IT TIME. AND SEE HOW IT
GOES DOWN THE ROAD.
2006-10-30 16:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋