I like my friend of 11 years, and I think he likes me. He plays fight, calls me either everyday or every other day, and also recently started to hold my hand and put his arm around me which he never did before. I don't think he knows I like him because I have never told him. He has asked out me about 2 yrs ago, and I said no because I was getting ready to turn 18, and it would been 17 but afraid something might happen, so I turned him down. So I have 2 questions.
1. How can I tell if He stil Likes me as more than a friend?
2. How can I tell him that I like him without making things awkward between us.?
2006-10-30 15:38:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you and him have been friends for eleven years so I'm pretty sure he knows everything about you and visa versa so it shouldn't be hard for you to talk to him....I think you should tell him how you feel...from his actions I believe that he likes you to and its nothing better than dating your best friend....I'm dating mine and I must tell you that we have a great relationship so go for it girl.
2006-10-30 15:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sexii Slim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of close guy friends and hey, we have never hold hands. Since you have known him for 11 years, you should be able to tell already of how this guy normally acts to friend-friend and a girlfriend or a girl he likes. Most successful couples are great friends, so that I guess answers the first Q.
For the second Q: I won't ask him just yet. I would observe how he interacts with you. Like what I've said earlier, you guys have been friends for over a decade, you guys know best about each other. I will just watch and see.
2006-10-30 23:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion for the answers are...
1. I think you already know the answer to that, especially if he recently started putting his arms around you and holding your hand..dead giveaway.
2. Be honest ..just tell him how you feel and mention to him that you don't want your relationship to be awkward, because of your feelings for him.
2006-10-30 23:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can help you with the first part. but i dont think youll like this. the only way i can think of off the top of my head is to make a really obviouse move on him. Go somewhere and really be really flirty. if he responds in the positive problem solved. if not.... well then you might end up in that akward situation in #2. not an easy one srry i cant be of more help
2006-10-30 23:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he is showing you that he likes you by calling you often, holding your hand, etc. If you like him too, then recipicate his actions. In other words, you can reach for his hand first, or give him a hug when you see him. Take your time and let your feelings reveal themself.
2006-10-30 23:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by cricketfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is holding your hand and putting his arm around you then he likes you as well!
2006-10-30 23:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's pretty touchy feely which might mean he wants to get intimate. Just speak as you feel. Ask him how he feels about takin your friendship to the next level.
2006-10-30 23:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. he is a guy so he likes you
2. just say it
2006-10-30 23:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by nimbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋