He had a girlfriend but he cheated on her and she didnt know. She moved back home because her Visa ended but he wanted to be with her so he moved to her country. While waiting to move, he cheated on her again. He moved but then came back and then cheated on her again. She came back to the United States to be with him but while waiting for her, he cheated on her again for 2 months. Every time he cheated it was with the same person. Im that person. I know I need to grow up and get over it and live and learn and how could I do that when I knew he had a girlfriend and he's a jerk and he doesnt care about me anymore, BUT my question is does he LOVE her? Will they last? Does he care about anyone? He hasnt talked to me since she has gotten back to the States. I KNOW I was used...yada yada yada...I know all that...but does he love her....that is all I want to know...
2006-10-30 15:32:24 · 21 answers · asked by ilovearodk4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would seem he's more taken with her than with you .... sounds like you were just a convenient sex partner ...
You must have feelings for him to have kept letting him come back (no pun intended) ... forget him ... even if he said he loved you ... could you really trust him knowing how readily he cheats???
Go find yourself someone who respects you and who loves you and you won't have to sleep with some guy when it's only convenient for him
2006-10-30 15:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if he loves her or not? You need to learn to love yourself, before anyone can love you. Obviously if he cheated on her over and over, he is incapable of a committed relationship, but either way, that doesn't mean that you should keep thinking you need or want him. You should focus on yourself and figure out what you want out of a relationship. You lack self confidence, which is why you allowed him to keep coming back and cheating. He made his choice, and now you should move forward, and don't look back. Don't take his calls, don't see him. You deserve better, but you need to figure that out for yourself.
2006-10-30 23:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by cricketfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you while his gf not around and he is complicated person..=Watergirl, I dont think everybody are the same..I cheated to my ex when i knew he's still married..he really dont like i cheated over him..I felt sorry for his wife..i cant tell her because i dont want to hurt her... But i never wanted to cheat again. I moved on. ~I'm engaged and very faithful with the guy I wanted in my life.he is my everything~. I think some are just jerk confusing and complicated person?
2006-10-30 23:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Wondergirl_in_ da_City 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most probably yes...im really sorry but u need a new bf this guy is not worth ur time...i really suggest u to push him out of ur life 4ever...im sure you'll find a new guy soon enough who cares about u instead of other gurls. Good luck
2006-10-30 23:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by figureskater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For him to go back to her, I would say that he probably still has feelings for her. I want to say that he's the kind of person that strives to get physically satisfied. I'm pretty sure that they won't last, because one day his gf will eventually find out.
2006-10-30 23:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didnt love her, he wouldnt have chased her around the world to be with her, his only problem is that he doesnt appreciate her, and his time will come.
2006-10-30 23:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't love neither one of yall. He is using both of yall. I would write him off. If i knew this person I would tell her just what type of guy he is so that she doesn't waist her time on him. Good luck
2006-10-30 23:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask him? But why would you care, given the fact he is a cheat. Once a cheat, always a cheat!
2006-10-30 23:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfourtunatly for you... yes he does love her. Ive been the wierd cheating bastard before and belive me if he is moving out of the country for this woman he loves her.
2006-10-30 23:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a clue because I don't know his feeling but I'd say obviously not if he's cheating on her
Why don't you ask him
2006-10-30 23:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋